06/01/2026
Five years ago, this photograph was taken during our father-daughter dance at my wedding.
At the time, it was simply a beautiful moment.
Today, it means something different.
About two and a half years ago, my dad had a stroke. He can no longer walk and now lives in assisted living. He also has signs of dementia.
My father is still alive.
And yet, I find myself grieving.
Not only the losses that have already occurred, but the changes in our relationship and the future I once imagined.
When I look at this photograph now, I don't just see a wedding dance.
I see a moment I can never return to (although, I do believe in miracles).
I see love.
I see gratitude.
I see sadness.
I see memories.
And somehow, I also see healing.
This experience has taught me something important:
Grief isn't limited to the death of a loved one.
Sometimes we grieve changes in health, relationships, abilities, roles, or the future we expected.
I imagine many of you have a photograph that carries a story like this.
One that means something different today than it did when it was taken.
This is one of the reasons I created Healing Through the Lens, a gentle 30-day journey that combines photography, journaling, mindfulness, and community to help people process grief and reconnect with meaning, beauty, and hope.
If this resonates with you, I'd love to have you join us.
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💛 Laurie