Jays Journey.New Beginnings

Jays Journey.New Beginnings Also to bring awareness to the public about CHD

This page was created to publicly share with people about my son's congenital heart problems he's had since birth and the journey we've all been on as a family since he was born.

Jay got released today!  He’s quite a bit lighter with alot of the fluid off. We were told if he starts to retain fluid ...
06/09/2026

Jay got released today! He’s quite a bit lighter with alot of the fluid off. We were told if he starts to retain fluid like that again we will definitely be making a trip to Nebraska for admission.
We will be keeping in close contact with Nebraska from now u til he has his heart catheter in July. Thank you for all the prayers and positive thoughts.
And big thanks to his sisters who spoiled him with food and tea, his grandma who spoils him all the time and his best buddies for keeping him occupied so he wasn’t so bored all day!

They told you your child needs a heart cath.And your stomach dropped.Because you heard the word "heart" and your brain w...
06/07/2026

They told you your child needs a heart cath.
And your stomach dropped.
Because you heard the word "heart" and your brain went straight to the worst place it could go.
Take a breath. Let us explain this.
A heart catheterization is not open heart surgery. They do not open the chest. They do not stop the heart. They thread a thin tube through a blood vessel — usually in the leg, neck, or arm — and guide it all the way to the heart using X-ray imaging.
Your child is asleep. Your child is not in pain.
And what happens inside that cath lab can change everything.
Doctors can see pressures inside the heart and lungs. They can check oxygen levels. They can look at blood flow. They can get detailed pictures of structures that no outside scan can fully show.
But it doesn't stop at diagnosing.
They can open narrowed valves. Place stents. Close holes. Create or enlarge openings between chambers when the heart needs a different path to survive.
All of it. Through a blood vessel.
No open chest.
No cracked sternum.
A completely different path to the same goal.
And for CHD kids — this isn't always a one-time thing.
Many heart children have multiple caths throughout their entire childhood. Because their heart changes as they grow. Because caths can delay surgery. Replace surgery. Plan surgery. Monitor what's shifting before it becomes a crisis.
It is a powerful tool.
It is not something to fear.
It is doctors fighting for your child in one of the most precise ways medicine can offer.
Your child is brave.
Your child is strong.
And now you know exactly what's happening in that room.



06/05/2026

After much back and forth between the Drs in Nebraska and drs here in Dubuque, it’s been decided Jay can stay here in the hospital and get IV treatments to get rid of some of this excess fluid in his leg. They’re hesitant to try lymphatic massages or treatment for it because oh his heart failure and the reason behind his lymphatic issues is his PLE and nothing can cure that except a heart transplant.
The drs think the swelling is related to protein-losing enteropathy (PLE) rather than a blocked lymphatic vessel so they feel lymphatic massage may not provide much benefit and could potentially cause problems if he is already dealing with fluid overload from his heart condition.

PLE is often seen in people with complex congenital heart disease, especially after procedures such as the Fontan procedure. When protein levels in the blood drop, fluid can leak into tissues and cause swelling. In that situation, the underlying issue is low protein and circulation/lymphatic dysfunction rather than a simple blockage that massage can “drain.”

So it sounds like he will be at Finley hospital here in Dubuque at least through tomorrow or Sunday.

That CHD is not a “heart condition” in the simple sense. It is a lifetime war.It does not end when the cast comes off.It...
06/04/2026

That CHD is not a “heart condition” in the simple sense. It is a lifetime war.
It does not end when the cast comes off.
It does not end when the surgery is over.
It does not end when the child smiles.
You cannot always see it.
That does not make it small.
That does not make it less real.
The hospital stay is only one chapter.
The fear after discharge is another.
The scans.
The meds.
The sleepless nights.
The “is this normal?”
The silent panic no one claps for.
What people need to understand is this.
CHD families are not asking for pity.
We are asking to be seen.
To be believed.
To not have our hardest days minimized because our child is breathing.
This is our life forever.


We are presently situated at Finley with Jay, awaiting the outcome of his potential admission, which may be here or poss...
06/04/2026

We are presently situated at Finley with Jay, awaiting the outcome of his potential admission, which may be here or possibly in Nebraska, as our journey may dictate. Jay is currently dealing with lymphedema in his leg that is continuing to worsen, a condition the medical team is prepared to address with prompt attention. Rest assured, we will provide regular updates throughout the entire process. If anyone would like to help out, it’s always appreciated. His go fund me is still active or you can use either of these apps. Or even go to dupaco community credit union and ask to deposit into jays journey to a new heart bank account under Kelly thoma. Thank you all

https://cash.app/$KelyThoma

https://venmo.com/u/Kelly-Thoma-465

05/28/2026

05/20/2026



Jay was diagnosed at birth with HRHSSame word.Different side.Completely different battle.This week we have been breaking...
05/20/2026

Jay was diagnosed at birth with HRHS

Same word.
Different side.
Completely different battle.
This week we have been breaking down two of the most complex congenital heart defects that exist.
HLHS and HRHS.
And we want to make sure you understand exactly how they are different.
Because they are not the same diagnosis.
They are not interchangeable.
And every family living one of these realities deserves a world that understands which fight they are actually in.
HLHS.
Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.
The LEFT side of the heart is underdeveloped.
The left ventricle. The mitral valve. The aortic valve. The aorta.
The left side is supposed to pump oxygen rich blood OUT to the body.
In HLHS —
it cannot do that job.
The body cannot GET oxygenated blood.
Without treatment —
fatal within days of birth.
Every time.
Treatment is a three stage surgical pathway.
Norwood. Glenn. Fontan.
Starting within the first week of life.
HRHS.
Hypoplastic Right Heart Syndrome.
The RIGHT side of the heart is underdeveloped.
The right ventricle. The tricuspid valve. The pulmonary valve.
The right side is supposed to pump blood TO the lungs to get oxygenated.
In HRHS —
it cannot do that job effectively.
The blood cannot BECOME oxygenated.
The body has to find alternate routes.
Often through a hole in the heart.
Or a PDA.
Or both.
Without treatment —
life threatening.
But presentation varies.
Which means some HRHS babies are caught immediately.
And some are not.
Treatment depends on severity.
Catheter procedures.
Surgical repairs.
Sometimes a Fontan type pathway similar to HLHS.
More variable.
More unpredictable.
No single standard road map.
The simplest way to understand it.
HLHS — the body cannot GET oxygenated blood. 💙
HRHS — the blood cannot BECOME oxygenated. 💜
Two sides.
Two completely different problems.
One devastating reality for every family living either diagnosis.
Save this post.
Share it with someone who is trying to understand.
Because these diagnoses deserve to be known.
Not just by cardiologists.
By everyone.

This is another “fun” side effect Jay deals with in his life due to his chronic heart failure.  This is also another rea...
05/19/2026

This is another “fun” side effect Jay deals with in his life due to his chronic heart failure. This is also another reason he struggles with recurring cellulitis on his right leg. It really sucks for him and others like him that deal with this daily.
Many people think lymphedema is simply “water retention” or swelling caused by inactivity, but lymphedema is actually a chronic condition involving impaired lymphatic drainage. The lymphatic system normally helps move excess fluid, proteins, and immune waste out of tissues. When that system becomes damaged or underdeveloped, fluid begins to accumulate and tissue changes gradually develop over time. Lymphedema may occur after cancer treatment, surgery, infection, trauma, severe obesity, or from inherited lymphatic abnormalities present since birth.

In Stage 0, also called the latent or subclinical stage, the lymphatic system is already struggling even though visible swelling may not yet appear. Patients often describe heaviness, tightness, fullness, or unusual fatigue in the affected limb. This phase can last months or even years before obvious edema develops. Because there is no visible swelling yet, many people are dismissed or misdiagnosed during this early period.

Stage 1 is considered the early or “reversible” stage. Swelling becomes visible and may improve temporarily with elevation or overnight rest. The tissue is usually soft, and pressing the skin may leave a temporary indentation called pitting edema. “Reversible” does not mean permanently cured — it means fibrosis and permanent tissue hardening have not fully developed yet, so fluid accumulation can still improve with proper management such as compression, movement, elevation, and manual lymphatic drainage.

In Stage 2, swelling becomes more persistent and typically no longer resolves with elevation alone. Over time, protein-rich fluid triggers inflammation and collagen buildup, causing fibrosis within the tissue. The skin and underlying tissue begin to feel firmer or thicker, and pitting may decrease as the tissue hardens. Many patients notice increased discomfort, reduced mobility, heaviness, and progressive limb shape changes during this stage.

Stage 3, sometimes called lymphostatic elephantiasis, is the most advanced form of lymphedema. Severe chronic swelling, skin thickening, fibrosis, and structural tissue changes become more pronounced. Skin folds, wart-like changes, recurrent infections such as cellulitis, and mobility limitations may develop. At this point, management focuses on reducing complications, improving function, protecting skin integrity, and slowing further progression rather than reversing the condition completely.

Lymphedema is also frequently confused with Lipedema, but the two conditions are different. Lipedema is a chronic fat disorder involving abnormal fat accumulation, while lymphedema primarily involves impaired lymphatic fluid drainage. However, some patients develop both conditions together, known as Lipolymphedema, where chronic fat accumulation eventually overloads and damages lymphatic function.

Although there is currently no universal cure for lymphedema, early detection can make a major difference. Compression therapy, regular movement, skin care, weight management, and specialized lymphatic treatments may help control symptoms and reduce progression risk. Most importantly, lymphedema is not caused by laziness or lack of discipline. Better awareness can lead to earlier diagnosis, more compassionate care, and less stigma for patients living with this lifelong condition.

05/17/2026

We're counting on your love and support as Jays tackles this challenging period. Despite extra doses of diuretic medication, Jay has experienced significant fluid retention over the past week, leading to breathing difficulties and skin sensitivity. However, with the introduction of the new 'super duper' water pill,metolazone, , we're optimistic about reducing fluid . We’re keeping our hopes high for significant progress by tomorrow


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