05/05/2026
I am no longer apologizing for being me. Yes I'm confrontational, yes I'm bluntly honest, and yes if you disrespect me I will calmly disrespect you. I am so sick and tired of molding my personality for the sake of other people's feelings when they have a complete disregard for my own. Because that's how it always works right? You're expected to be soft, understanding, patient, and careful with everyone else's emotions but nobody extends that same energy to yours.
And I'm done with it. I spent years biting my tongue, adjusting my tone, shrinking my personality, and swallowing my truth just to make other people comfortable. But where was their consideration when they were being rude to me? Where was their sensitivity when they crossed my boundaries? Where was their filter when they said things that cut me deep? It was nowhere.
So the same grace they refused to give me is the same grace I'm no longer giving them. I am who I am, unfiltered, unapologetic, and completely done pretending to be anything less. If my honesty bothers you then maybe the problem isn't my delivery, maybe it's your inability to handle the truth.
