11/13/2023
The first time I meet someone I ask them to tell me their story. Then I ask them why they think they are not good enough to have the things they dream of ”most of the time it’s comparing themselves to others”.
I then congratulate them for surviving to where they are today! Again I ask them could you go through what others have gone through to get where they are today?
When we compare ourselves to others we only see where they are in real time. What about the times that they have almost unalived themselves in their darkest moments? Or what about the sexual trauma they went through or what about the horrible relationships that they have gone through?
So the next time we compare ourselves to others think about that. And revel in the moment of knowing that you have survived all of the traumas in your life up to this point.
And celebrate 🎉 every second for being beautifully imperfect just the way we are all meant to be. 🥳🎊🎉💜🙌💜