DRE'S SAFE PLACE

DRE'S SAFE PLACE Syracuseโ€™s first interactive mental wellness & emotional regulation center. A private space for self-care and healing using immersive rooms & spaces.

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๐—™๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—œ๐—ฆ ๐—–๐—ข๐— ๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—ง๐—ข ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—”๐—™๐—˜ ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—–๐—˜ ๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿ’œSeptember brings a new season, and at DREโ€™S, it also brings a ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ...
09/04/2026

๐—™๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐—œ๐—ฆ ๐—–๐—ข๐— ๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—ง๐—ข ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—”๐—™๐—˜ ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—–๐—˜ ๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿ’œ

September brings a new season, and at DREโ€™S, it also brings a ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฒ.

As DREโ€™S continues to grow, weโ€™re creating dedicated time for individuals, organizations, private groups, workshops, youth programs, and community events, while making it easier for you to know exactly when you can come take some time for yourself.

Our September calendar is included with this post, so ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜๐—ต.

๐—ฆ๐—จ๐—ก๐——๐—”๐—ฌ๐—ฆ | ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿญ ๐—”๐— โ€“๐Ÿณ ๐—ฃ๐— 
๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€.

And Sunday really is the perfect day for it.

Itโ€™s that space between everything you carried through the week and everything waiting for you on Monday.

A chance to ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€, ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ, ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ธ ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ instead of carrying last week right into the next one.

Because sometimes youโ€™re not in crisis.

Youโ€™re just tired.

Overwhelmed.

Frustrated.

Grieving.

Holding everything together for everybody else.

And ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป.

At DREโ€™S, you can scream, pray, meditate, break a plate, hit the punching bag, sit in the massage chair, speak something different over yourself, or simply have an hour where nobody needs anything from you.

๐—ก๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.

๐—ก๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚โ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ.

๐—ก๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜.

And sometimes the people who walk through our doors say it better than I ever could.

Last month, someone left DREโ€™S saying:

โ€œ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.โ€

Another wrote:

โ€œ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ!โ€

And after celebrating her birthday at DREโ€™S, one woman shared:

โ€œ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—œ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฑ. ๐—œ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—บ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐——๐—ฟ๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—œ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜.โ€

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—œ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ.

You donโ€™t have to come here because something is wrong.

Sometimes you just need somewhere to feel what you feel, release what youโ€™ve been carrying, breathe, reconnect with yourself, and make room for what comes next.

๐—ฃ๐—”๐—ฌ ๐—ช๐—›๐—”๐—ง ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ ๐—–๐—”๐—ก ๐—–๐—ข๐—ก๐—ง๐—œ๐—ก๐—จ๐—˜๐—ฆ ๐Ÿ’œ

Our monthly Pay What You Can Day will continue because ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€.

Check the September calendar included with this post for this monthโ€™s date.

Throughout the rest of the week, DREโ€™S will continue welcoming organizations, agencies, private groups, workshops, retreats, youth programs, team experiences, community events, and special programs.

๐—”๐—ก๐—— ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐— ๐—ข๐—ฅ๐—˜ ๐—–๐—ข๐— ๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—ง๐—›๐—œ๐—ฆ ๐—™๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ...

Weโ€™ll also be opening ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ for people who need a comfortable place to work, focus, create, connect, or simply get out of the house for a few hours.

Stay tuned.

๐Ÿ“ ๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ
6101 E. Molloy Rd.
East Syracuse, NY 13057

๐——๐—ฅ๐—˜โ€™๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐˜†.

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜…. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ. ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜.ยฎ

If youโ€™ve been saying, โ€œI need a minute,โ€ maybe Sunday is your minute.

๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป.

I knew we had a busy summer at DREโ€™S, but I did not realize the full impact until I sat down and counted.๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–.From mid-Ma...
09/02/2026

I knew we had a busy summer at DREโ€™S, but I did not realize the full impact until I sat down and counted.

๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ–.

From mid-May through August, ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ– ๐๐ข๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž experienced DREโ€™S Safe Place.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ– ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ.

Forty-six of them experienced DREโ€™S when we brought our programming to Syracuse University.

That number means more to me than I can put into one post.

๐ƒ๐‘๐„โ€™๐’ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐จ๐งโ€™๐ฌ ๐ง๐š๐ฆ๐ž. So when a family, school, church, or youth program trusts me with their young people, I feel both the honor and the responsibility of that trust.

Some came excited. Some came quiet. Some stood back and watched before deciding if they wanted to participate. Some did not think DREโ€™S would be for them until they experienced it for themselves.

Nobody was forced to tell their whole story or explain every feeling.

Through DREโ€™S experiential rooms and activities, they were given different ways to release, relax, rejuvenate, connect, and RESET.

They screamed.

They moved their bodies and hit punching bags.

They wrote down what they wanted to release and broke plates.

They breathed, rested, reflected, laughed, wrote affirmations, and allowed themselves to just be.

At the same time, they practiced naming what they were feeling, recognizing where stress was showing up in their bodies, identifying safe people, asking for help, choosing coping strategies, grounding themselves, and creating personal RESET plans.

๐ˆ๐ง ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ-๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ž๐ฒ๐ฌ, youth reported knowing what to do before reacting and being able to identify a safe person they could turn to for support.

Those words matter to me because that is what I want young people to carry with them when they leave DREโ€™S.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ƒ๐‘๐„โ€™๐’.

๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ž. ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ฑ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง. ๐‘๐ž๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง. ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.

It is not just about breaking plates or having fun in the rooms.

It is about giving young people a place to experience their emotions without being judged for having them.

A place to discover that there is more than one way to respond when life feels heavy.

๐€ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐œ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ž๐ซ, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ ๐ƒ๐‘๐„โ€™๐’ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก:

โ€ข Syracuse City School District programs
โ€ข PGR Foundation
โ€ข Street Addiction Institute
โ€ข Fired Up for Youth
โ€ข Tucker Missionary Youth Group
โ€ข Princess Glow Up
โ€ข Project Rise
โ€ข Rasheadaโ€™s Middle School Enrichment
โ€ข Syracuse University Pre-College Programs

Thank you to every organization, family, youth leader, facilitator, and person who opened a door, made a call, brought a group, shared a post, or trusted DREโ€™S enough to say, โ€œOur young people need this.โ€

And thank you to every young person who gave DREโ€™S a chance, even when you were unsure.

As the school year begins, the pressure, expectations, and hard moments will not disappear.

But ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ– ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž had an opportunity to practice what they can do with what they feel.

How to pause.

How to release safely and choose what to do next.

How to recognize when they need support.

How to get themselves back before choosing their next move.

This is not just a summer number to me.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ– ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ค๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ .

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฆ๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž ๐ž๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ.

If you are a school or youth-serving organization and you know your young people need more than another conversation about emotional wellness, let them experience DREโ€™S.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ก ๐š ๐œ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ง ๐š ๐ฌ๐š๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐‘๐„๐’๐„๐“.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐ข๐ง.

Today is National Overdose Awareness Day...Sometimes an overdose happens in minutes.But the people who love that person ...
08/31/2026

Today is National Overdose Awareness Day...

Sometimes an overdose happens in minutes.

But the people who love that person can carry pieces of that moment for years.

It can be a mother replaying the last conversation, wondering what she missed.

A child trying to understand why someone they loved never came home.

A sibling feeling their stomach drop when another family member does not answer the phone.

A person in recovery trying to move forward while still carrying shame from one of the hardest chapters of their life.

A family loving the same person, grieving the same person, and still not knowing how to talk to one another about what happened.

And sometimes it is simply silence.

Because even in grief, people are still afraid of being judged when they say the word overdose.

There are parts of overdose loss we do not talk about enough.

The unanswered questions.

The guilt.

The anger.

The fear.

The โ€œwhat ifs.โ€

The birthdays that feel different.

The phone calls you still wish you could make.

The moments when something happens and, for a second, you forget they are not there to tell.

And somewhere today, someone is carrying a loss they do not know how to talk about.

If that is you, your grief does not have to look like anyone elseโ€™s.

You can love someone and still be angry.

You can miss them and still have questions.

You can remember the good without pretending the hard parts did not happen.

If you are in recovery, the hardest chapter of your life does not erase your humanity or everything that came before and after it.

If you love someone who is struggling, your fear, exhaustion, love, frustration and hurt matter too.

And if you have ever only seen the overdose and not the person, today is a good day to look again.

Because before the substance, before the diagnosis, before the circumstances and before the way their story ended...

there was a person.

Someone with a laugh.

Someone with people they loved.

Someone with plans.

Someone with mistakes.

Someone with a story much bigger than one moment of their life.

See the person before the circumstance.

Last week we closed The Empty Chair: Until You Know My Story.

The installation ended.

The conversation should not.

Today we remember those who died.

We honor those who survived.

We hold space for the families still carrying the impact.

And we keep reminding people of something stigma too often makes us forget:

Every number had a name.
Every name had a story๐Ÿ’œ






We are honored to share that DREโ€™S Safe Place Founder and Owner, Quinnika, has been named a 2026 Central New York 40 Ove...
08/30/2026

We are honored to share that DREโ€™S Safe Place Founder and Owner, Quinnika, has been named a 2026 Central New York 40 Over 40 Legacy Awards Honoree.

DREโ€™S was never built just to be a business.

It was built from love, grief, and a motherโ€™s decision that her sonโ€™s life would continue to mean something in this world.

Drequanโ€™s name may not be written on this award, but his life is all through it.

It is in every person who has walked through our doors carrying something heavy and left feeling lighter.

It is in every young person learning a healthier way to release what they feel.

It is in every person who found even one moment of relief, hope, strength, or connection inside this space.

DREโ€™S is proof that something born from one of the hardest moments of a life can become something that helps other people make it through theirs.

Thank you to the Central New York 40 Over 40 Legacy Awards for recognizing this work and including Quinnika among this yearโ€™s honorees.

And thank you to every person who has walked through our doors, trusted us, partnered with us, supported us, referred someone to us, or spoken the name DREโ€™S in a room we were not in.

Drequanโ€™s life continues to reach people he never had the chance to meet.

That is bigger than an award.

That is legacy...

DREโ€™S Safe Place
You wonโ€™t leave how you came inโค๏ธ

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐…๐ซ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ.As The Empty Chair: Until You Know My Story comes to an end, I want to tha...
08/28/2026

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐’๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐…๐ซ๐ข๐๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ.

As The Empty Chair: Until You Know My Story comes to an end, I want to thank every family who trusted DREโ€™S Safe Place and me with something so personal.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ง๐ค ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž.

Thank you for sharing their pictures, their stories, their memories, and pieces of who they were beyond the way they died.

I know those were not just photographs on a wall.

๐“๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐š๐›๐ข๐ž๐ฌ.
๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐š๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ.

That trust meant everything.

This installation was never meant to be something people simply walked through and looked at.

It was created so people would stop, reflect, participate, challenge their assumptions, and ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ข๐ซ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž.

And to everyone who came through our doors and experienced it, thank you.

Every person who stopped to read a story, listen, reflect, leave a message, or sit with what they were seeing helped make sure ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐๐ฎ๐œ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐๐จ๐ฌ๐ž.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐.

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž ๐ž๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ.

On August 31, we will continue to remember and honor lives at the ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐†๐š๐ซ๐๐ž๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‡๐จ๐ฉ๐ž @ ๐Ÿ”๐ฉ๐ฆ.

Because remembrance should not end when the display comes down.

๐๐ž๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฆ๐š.

To the families who trusted DREโ€™S:

๐ˆ ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ง.
๐ˆ ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ž๐.
๐€๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ, ๐ˆ ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž.

Thank you for allowing us to carry their stories with care ๐Ÿ’œ

๐“๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ข๐ซ ๐ฆ๐š๐ฒ ๐›๐ž ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฒ. ๐“๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ง.

This is what DREโ€™S was created forโค๏ธ From our youth to our adults..We Healing Over Hereโœจ๏ธRelease. Relax. Rejuvenate. Con...
08/27/2026

This is what DREโ€™S was created forโค๏ธ From our youth to our adults..We Healing Over Hereโœจ๏ธ

Release. Relax. Rejuvenate. Connect.ยฎ

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฑโ€ฆ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.You become the de...
08/26/2026

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฑโ€ฆ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

You become the dependable one.

The fixer.

The listener.

The one who shows up.

The one who figures it out.

And after a while, people can become so used to your strength that they forget you need care too.

๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ.

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜.

You are allowed to need encouragement.

You are allowed to ask for help.

You are allowed to have someone check on you without needing anything from you first.

โœจ๏ธ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:โœจ๏ธ

๐—œ ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป.

Let that sit with you.

You deserve relationships where you are not only valued for what you do, fix, provide, or hold together.

๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ป?

๐“๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‹๐€๐’๐“ ๐ƒ๐€๐˜.๐–๐ž๐๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐๐š๐ฒ, ๐€๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ” | ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ ๐๐Œโ€“๐Ÿ” ๐๐Œ๐…๐‘๐„๐„ | Walk-ins welcomeโ€œ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž๐...
08/25/2026

๐“๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐‹๐€๐’๐“ ๐ƒ๐€๐˜.

๐–๐ž๐๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐๐š๐ฒ, ๐€๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ” | ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ ๐๐Œโ€“๐Ÿ” ๐๐Œ
๐…๐‘๐„๐„ | Walk-ins welcome

โ€œ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ก๐š๐ฌ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ.โ€

A visitor said that after walking through ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐„๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐‚๐ก๐š๐ข๐ซ: ๐”๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐Š๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐’๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ.

It was created to honor lives lost to ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐๐จ๐ฌ๐ž and challenge the stigma surrounding addiction.

But grief has a way of making an ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ข๐ซ feel familiar to more people than we expect.

๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐ž๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ.

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐š ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž?โ€œDo I have ADHD,...
08/24/2026

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ง ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐š ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž?

โ€œDo I have ADHD, or am I overwhelmed?โ€

โ€œIs this anxiety, depression, chronic stress, or something else?โ€

โ€œIs what happened to me still affecting how I live today?โ€

Finding words for what you have been experiencing can feel like relief.

โ€œFinally. ๐Œ๐š๐ฒ๐›๐ž ๐ˆโ€™๐ฆ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐š๐ณ๐ฒ, ๐๐ซ๐š๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐œ, ๐๐ข๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฎ๐ฉ.โ€

But another fear can quickly follow:

โ€œ๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐ˆ ๐ซ๐ž๐œ๐ž๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐š ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ, ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ, ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ž๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž?โ€

You are quiet, so they assume you are depressed.

You forget something, so they blame your ADHD.

You have a strong emotional reaction, so they blame your diagnosis.

You set a boundary, so they call it a trauma response.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ .

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฆ๐š.

๐€ ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ง๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐š ๐ฉ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ. It cannot always tell you why the pattern began, and it cannot tell anyone everything about you.

๐“๐ฐ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ข๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ. Their symptoms, triggers, strengths, treatment, and support needs may not look alike.

If mental health content online sounds like your life, ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐œ๐ข๐ง๐ . But do not let a few relatable videos make the diagnosis for you either.

๐–๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ž ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง:

โ€ข What you are experiencing
โ€ข How often it happens
โ€ข How long it lasts
โ€ข How it affects your daily life

Then share those patterns with a qualified health care or mental health professional.

And if someone shares their diagnosis with you, please do not say:

โ€œYou donโ€™t look like you have that.โ€

Ask:

โ€œ๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ?โ€

Then listen to their answer.

๐€ ๐๐ข๐š๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ข๐ง๐ .

๐ˆ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐ž๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž.

Thursday our Healed Handsโ„ข cohort made soap, talked about what real self-care looks like, and of course made candles bec...
08/24/2026

Thursday our Healed Handsโ„ข cohort made soap, talked about what real self-care looks like, and of course made candles because who doesnโ€™t love a good handmade candle?

But Healed Hands has never really been about the craft.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐˜ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป.

We create.
We laugh.
We check on each other.
Sometimes we cry.
We celebrate each other.
We make room for each other.

And somewhere along the way, these women became a Safe Place for one another.

๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต.

Sometimes you need people you donโ€™t have to be strong around.

People you donโ€™t have to fix anything for.
People you donโ€™t have to explain everything to.
๐—ฃ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜... ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ.

And if you donโ€™t have that kind of circle right now, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ.

Connection does not always start with a whole group. Sometimes it starts with ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป. ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜„ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ. ๐—ข๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป where you realize you donโ€™t have to do everything alone.

So as Sunday night winds down and another week begins, ask yourself:

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ? ๐—ข๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป?

And carry these three things with you this week:

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ถ๐˜.
You do not have to wait until everything is falling apart to say, โ€œI need somebody.โ€

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ.
Where you can be quiet, be honest, laugh too loud, cry if you need to, and show up without pretending.

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ.
If you are usually the strong one, the helper, the caregiver, or the one everybody calls, practice receiving this week without immediately trying to give something back.

At DREโ€™S Safe Place, ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ is part of ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜…. ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ. ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜.โ„ข for a reason.

Sometimes you need to release.

Sometimes you need quiet.

And sometimes you need people, or even just ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, that reminds you that you were never supposed to carry everything by yourselfโค๏ธ

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