Withers Whisper, LLC

03/19/2026

You can choose courage, or you can choose comfort. You cannot choose both. Brene Brown

05/16/2025

Until you get to the root of the problem, it never goes away! Just keep digging!

05/12/2025

Mel Robbins says the more control you give up, the more you gain.

I swear I have struggled with control my whole life. I remember my mom telling me that I woke up with a dry diaper before I was 1. Talk about control.

I would leave to spend the night at a friend's house, and when I returned, I knew if someone had been in my room.

I could save my Halloween candy from year to year and not eat it. Why go trick or treating if you are not going to eat it? Apparently, it was about control. I didn't necessarily want to eat it; however, I for sure didn't want anyone else to eat it.

Can you relate to wanting to be in control? I want everything I do to look a certain way, from the way I get up and do my morning routine to the way the dishwasher is loaded, and I can go on and on.

My life is structured and very specific, and if things don't go the way I think they should, the wheels fall off the bus. Can you relate? If you can, I presume you know what happens next. I either get mad or my anxiety goes through the roof.

These are words to live by as a controller for sure. Here is to letting it go. Control is an ugly monster that has been controlling me my whole life. Here's to letting it go and working the muscle to relax more!

05/11/2025

I love my mother, and yet I still hate Mother's Day!

Every year, I get triggered and reminded everywhere, even at church, to honor our mother for the fact that she gave birth to me and has taken care of me for the first 18 years of my life, and continues to worry and care about me even today.

I have always known that I wanted to be a mother from a very young age. I am the one who takes care of everybody, including my clients, yet I sit here today with no child.

I have struggled with unexplained infertility for years. As a controller, this was the worst answer to be given by a doctor. NO ANSWERS, what do you mean, no answers?

I have had ugly conversations with God. I have wondered if there was a God.

It is so painful every time there is another baby announcement from a family member or friend. I get pi**ed when I see someone who doesn't deserve a child having one or another one. When I see a mother getting her child taken away because of drugs or alcohol. I am angry and feel like I am being punished.

People want to be helpful and tell you things like Have you thought about adoption. People, these comments are not helpful. It is much better to say nothing and hold space for the person who is struggling. Because believe me, every thought has run through my/our mind since the minute I/we have been told we have infertility.

I know that I am not the only one who hates Mother's Day. Some people have lost their mother, and this holiday is a trigger. There are people who are in a fight with their mother and not speaking, there are people who never knew their mother, there are people whose mother is struggling with a mental illness, and their mother doesn't know who they are. For them, I say I am sorry. I see you too!

Please be aware that this holiday is not joyful for everyone. If you know someone who is struggling with one of these things. You don't have to say anything except I am here if you need to talk. I will listen! I won't give feedback, and I won't give you unsolicited advice. I will just BE HERE FOR YOU!

Happy Mother's Day to the mothers who are lucky enough to have a child or loved one call them MOM!

07/30/2024

"It is our decisions, not our conditions, that determine the quality of your life. Conditions are not always under your control, and decisions are ALWAYS under your control. Will you be a "victim" or a "victor"? The decision is yours!!!" Andrea M. Hall

Who are you today, a victim or victor? Remember, you can change what you get to choose. Every choice has consequences. What will you choose?
Have a great week.

07/17/2024

“To achieve your goals and dreams, you must listen to the whisper which only you can hear.” Andrea M. Hall

What are you hearing as you sit quietly?
How can I support that dream?

10/19/2023

I am just about to start reading this book and am excited to be part of the book club that will be starting soon.

This is a dear friend of mine and mentor Rachael Jayne Groover's new book.

UNSHAKABLE INNER PEACE
Get Off the Mental and Emotional Rollercoaster for Good.

She held a book launch Gala last week, which was a powerful spiritual experience, and here’s a link to the recording (that will be up until October 23rd).

https://grooverseminars.samcart.com/referral/unshakable-inner-peace/XBDRPqAYaJETGgub

I believe the Book Launch Gala for UNSHAKABLE INNER PEACE will lift you to new heights.

Rachael Jayne had an extraordinary encounter with a spiritual mentor who unveiled the wisdom that led her to an unshakable state of…

Peace, power, and refined intuition.

If you need connection, inspiration, revelations, and surprising insights…watch this.

P.S. This is only available to watch until midnight of October 23rd. Here’s the link again:

https://grooverseminars.samcart.com/referral/unshakable-inner-peace/XBDRPqAYaJETGgub

Imagine a life where anxiety, difficult emotions, and fearful thoughts no longer control you.

10/12/2023

Are you ready to begin the healing process?

07/07/2023

Just a thought!!!