08/17/2026
Externalizing the problem: your relationship is not the problem; you are not the problem; he/she/they are not the problem. The chainsaw paradox of life IS the problem. You have to learn to dance on the trapeze wire of life’s paradox for your relationship to survive. It’s nothing short of miraculous when it does
Cutting Edge by Vera Selene Tegelman and Jukka Tarvainen (2025)
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