06/17/2026
Chapter 6 â The Comebackâš
The pages are still being written. Healing didnât end; it evolved. It became a way of living â a rhythm of gratitude, movement, and connection.
I look around now and see the community that helped me rise. At the center of it stands Shelley, owner of Serenity Fitness â a woman whose vision created a space where women could move, heal, and belong. Her dream wasnât just fitness; it was sanctuary. A place where women support women, where strength and softness coexist.
Shelley is a leader wise beyond her years â passionate, grounded, and brave enough to dream big. Her encouragement has pushed me in ways I didnât know I needed. With her gentle prodding and unwavering support, I became a student again: attending classes, earning certifications, and stepping into new roles.
Over the last year, Iâve completed Yin Yoga training, Kids Yoga training, and Mat Pilates instructor certification. Each milestone felt like a homecoming â a return to purpose. Iâm deeply grateful for Shelleyâs trust, her honesty, and her backbone. Sheâs someone you want on your side.
Together, weâve worked to build programming that fits our communityâs needs â to grow Serenity Fitness, to nurture connection with our wonderful clients, and to keep expanding the circle of women who lift each other up.
Beyond the studio, Iâve found new friendships in other new communities â each one a reminder that strength multiplies when shared.
And at home, Iâm learning to accept my evolving role in motherhood with grace. My boys are growing, becoming men, and Iâm learning to stand beside them instead of in front of them.
Corey, my oldest, carries an incredible work ethic â a legacy passed down through generations. He now works in the same place as his stepdad, grandpa, greatâgrandfather, and greatâgreatâgrandfather â a combined 143âyear family (work) legacy. Watching him learn a trade, navigate relationships, and balance work and life fills me with pride. Heâs steady, loyal, and dedicated â a reflection of the lineage he comes from.
Mason, my youngest, just finished his junior year of high school. Heâs faced his own health challenges, but his resilience shines. Heâs tapped into faith, friendship, and community, and his commitment to fitness and nutrition inspires me daily. His grit and focus will take him far. This fall, he begins his senior year â a season of excitement and discovery. Heâs diving into his passions, not just weightlifting but also car audio sound system installation, teaching himself, learning, improving every day.
And through it all, thereâs Matt â my husband, my partner, my constant. Heâs building his career with determination and heart. Some days, the stress of life makes us butt heads â two strongâwilled souls navigating the push and pull of growth. But beneath it all, our love remains steady. Itâs strong, dependable, and continually evolving. We challenge each other, we support each other, and we keep choosing each other. Our love is the quiet backbone of this story â the steady hum beneath every chapter.
And then there are my parents â the ones who have loved and supported us through every season. They are always there, cheering in the background, steady as bedrock. Their prayers have covered us, protected us, lifted us when we didnât even know we needed lifting. Their love is unconditional, unwavering, and deeply felt. I am so grateful for them â for their presence, their faith, their quiet strength that has shaped me more than they know.
I am equally grateful for Mattâs parents â kind, loving, and endlessly accepting. From the beginning, they welcomed me and my boys with open arms. Their guidance has been gentle but steady, their support unwavering. They show up with love, with wisdom, with a sense of family that feels both grounding and expansive.I feel deeply blessed to be part of their family, and grateful for the way they have embraced us as their own.
Watching my sons grow, working beside Shelley, standing beside Matt, and feeling the constant support of both sets of parents â I see the full picture now. Healing isnât just mine; itâs ours.Itâs generational.Itâs communal. Itâs ongoing.
A God Wink at 10:43 đđ»
And then, as if the universe wanted to underline it all, I found myself writing these words at 10:43 in the morning. At that exact moment, my dad messaged me to say he remembered that, at the beginning of his career, he worked in Building 143.
Another God wink. Another gentle reminder that we are guided, held, and nudged along the right path.That love threads itself through our lives in ways we donât always see until the timing is too perfect to ignore.
It felt like a whisper from something bigger than us âAll you need is love.You are exactly where youâre meant to be.
And in that moment, 143 became more than a number. It became a blessing.
Dedication â 143
As this chapter closes, I hold close the quiet poetry of a number. One hundred fortyâthree years of combined work, dedication, and legacy â carried by my son, my husband, my father, my grandfather, and my greatâgrandfather.
And now I see the beauty in what that number has always meant:
1 â I
4 â love
3 â you
A simple code. A lighthouse signal. A message that has traveled through generations.
It feels fitting â almost divinely timed â that our family (work legacy) currently stands at 143 years. As if the universe itself is whispering: This is love. This is legacy. This is what endures.
So I dedicate this chapter â this comeback, this present-day unfolding â
To the people who have loved me and my boys through every rise and fall.
To community
To family
To faith
To the ones who came before us and the ones who will come after.
This chapter is for them.This chapter is for us.This chapter is love. â€ïž