03/19/2025
The monster you saw at the end of the relationship is exactly who they are. Don't fool yourself into thinking that the person you fell in love with was the real them, and the one who hurt you was just a facade. No, the truth is, the mask came off at the end, and you finally saw their true colors.
The anger, the resentment, the hurtful words and actions - that's who they are when they're not getting what they want. That's who they are when they're forced to confront their own flaws and weaknesses. And that's who they are when they're not hiding behind the charm and charisma that initially drew you in.
It's hard to accept, especially when you've invested so much of yourself in the relationship. But trust me, the monster you saw at the end is the real deal. And you're better off without them.