09/30/2026
Judges Can’t Receive Gifts
I am not proud of the person that I brought with me today.
I’m talking about Sunday Mass, and if Mass is not part of your world, indulge me and stick with this, because it can apply to any event in life. Mine just happened at church. As soon as the priest walked down the aisle, I saw what the next hour would hold. I closed myself off and went into judgment mode. This may happen to you somewhere different, perhaps a meeting you have to be at or a family gathering. There is something fundamental that doesn’t suit you, and a grumpy, bad mood sets in.
About thirty minutes in, I started talking turkey with myself. So I focused on what was drawing me. It came through the incense, and through a toddler two rows in front of me who thought the priest, deacon, and singer were all talking to her, and babbled right back. Precious and distracting at the same time. I opted for precious. Not long after, the shift happened. Call it mindset, call it heartset. Tears came.
What is your inner judge costing you today?
The full story is on my Substack https://robinkencel.substack.com/p/judges-cant-receive-gifts
and on AgingwithPurpose.org https://robinkencel.com/news/judges-cant-receive-gifts/
I am not proud of the person I brought with me yesterday. I’m talking about Sunday Mass. If Mass isn’t part of your world, indulge me and stay with this,...