01/04/2022
Hi everyone! Hope everyone is trying to get back to routine after the holidays, as I am. The struggle is real people. Two weeks of no schedules, meals on the go, eating desserts like it was the main entrée…long naps on the couch…and add to that, 2 bonus days that we got here in Northern Virginia, because of snow and schools were closed. It is like coming out of hibernation. As much as my body is on protest mode, my mind is on “let’s get this engine started up” mode. I am looking forward to 2022 and praying it will be one that we will look back with fondness, good memories, and with pride of accomplishing goals.
This is the season to make “New Year Resolutions”. One of mine is to cleanup my mental space and be very discerning about what I allow into it. Mental health is as, if not more important to physical health. We can make healthy choices for our physical health when our minds are healthy. In my line of work, I see folks unable to make healthy dietary choices as they use food to soothe and comfort their anxieties, depression, loneliness etc. When this becomes a chronic issue, it leads to disease. A healthy mind is the way to win the war to having a healthy body.
Some of the strategies that I use and recommend, to keep my mind healthy is to:
1) Not to spend too much time on social media as it more times than none, gets me upset, sad or anxious. A constant flood of often discouraging and anxiety filled news feeds are not helpful to me to stay peaceful and productive. Hopefully I can stick with this. My motto is to replace negative thoughts and news feeds with positive ones. I am a nerd, so this will be a great opportunity to catch up on my clinical reads that have been piling up and believe me, that pile is tall.
2) What we fill our minds with dictates our level of peace and wellness. That includes what we watch. I do not watch any shows that would raise my level of anxiety. I prefer documentaries, period dramas, romance, and comedies. I find them informative and entertaining. Evil and foreboding types of shows or ones with blood and guts, are not my thing. We are living in anxious and confusing times, and we certainly do not need more sources that pour more anxiety and fear into our minds. Find movies or shows that truly make you laugh, like belly laughs. Laughter is the best medicine and when did you last laugh out loud till your sides hurt? Spend time with your kids. Kids are hilarious no matter how young or old they are. Get them talking, you will laugh more than you ever did.
3) Take a walk outside in fresh air, weather permitting. Fresh air and solitude are good for the mind, body and soul. Put on your favorite music or pod cast, audio book etc. and enjoy some “me” time, outdoors.
4) Learn to say “NO”. Being over committed and people pleasing, is the fastest way to burn out. Life lesson I learned the hard way, a few years ago.
5) Cut out the toxic relationships in your life. If someone walks away, let them go. You are better off without them. It is painful, believe me. I had to go through a grieving period when some long-term friendships fell apart. I spent the longest time trying to find out what went wrong, where and if I had done something to contribute to it. Well, now being older and wiser, I realized that those people showed me their true self many times, but I did not pay attention or made excuses for their behavior. I might sound like Oprah when I say this, but in the words of Maya Angelou, “When people show you who they are, believe them, the first time”.
6) However, what helps me the most, to keep my peace, is spending time in prayer and reading God’s word – the Bible. The moments when I am most anxious, is when I have not spent time with my Heavenly Father. I am like a battery that has lost its charge and needs to get plugged in to be recharged. Jesus is the Prince of Peace and the peace He gives, no one or no single anything can. When we empty our hearts to Him, He fills it with His peace and joy, that surpasses all understanding.
a. In John 14:27, Jesus says “PEACE I leave with you; my PEACE I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”
b. In Philippians 4:6-7, we have instruction to “not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” … followed by God’s promise “And the PEACE of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
c. In Isaiah 26:3, we have a promise, “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!”
In conclusion, as in Philippians 4:8 “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things”.
A Blessed, Peaceful and Prosperous 2022 to you all.
Your Friend and Dietitian
Kavitha F. Johnson