06/14/2026
My recent experience.... Just over month ago, I found myself on the other side of the stethoscope.
My 15-year-old son broke his collarbone in a dirt bike accident. - I still work in the ER on occasion - so I know the general expectation -- roughly 6-12 weeks; sling for a few weeks & serial x-rays...
🩻We saw two orthopedic providers.
The first spent a few minutes with us and essentially told him:
"Play video games for four months and don't take your shirt off over your head." "Is there anything we can do to support healing or shorten the downtime? " "No."
No discussion about recovery.
No conversation about the mental side of being a sidelined athlete.
No explanation of what healing would look like. Not even a mention of the importance of sleep & nutrition while healing. Cold & Dismissive and it felt like we were interrupting her lunch break.
The second provider printed his X-rays, showed him exactly what she was looking at, explained the healing process, discussed timelines, and acknowledged the wrestling tournaments he'd miss. & said every kid is different, some get back out there is 7 weeks, some longer... the X-rays guide the return to sports.
Same injury.
Same diagnosis.
Completely different experience.
Healthcare isn't just about identifying what's wrong.
It's about being human, helping people understand what comes next.
Sometimes that's the difference between feeling defeated and feeling hopeful which I believe is a huge influence on the outcome.
Now, I don't expect mainstream orthopedics to be willing to discuss some of the adjunctive healing remedies that I recommend from a functional standpoint-- but leaving with that hope left us inspired to build him an epic recovery plan...
& we did...
We combined a whole list of things that mainstream medicine does not recommend due to "limited evidence" 🙄 (translation = not an insurance covered cash cow) to include PEMF, ESWT, Supplements, p__tides, psychoneuro exercises, redlight therapy....
🥰My son was fully cleared to return to sports with no restrictions on June 4th, just 5 weeks from the injury.
The point being, when you tell me about your awful experience & the providers that made you cry and feel like there was no hope, I absolutely believe you. I can help you navigate specialist appointments, & know the difference between - clinically accurate & cold, & when we need to get you a second or even third opinion. I have a list of mainstream providers that I genuinely enjoy sharing patients with...it all has a place, I just like my patients to know all of their options. 💚🩵💚