Michelle Patton

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Holistic Hairdresser
I offer my expertise haircutting|styling skills for your personal expression of beauty while holding a ceremonial space for a harmonious flow of mind, body & spirit with the facilitation of energy work.

You know hair.They know themselves.Why the f**k are we making that a power struggle?This one is two fold, for the hairst...
09/03/2026

You know hair.
They know themselves.
Why the f**k are we making that a power struggle?

This one is two fold, for the hairstylist and the guest.
Because creating a different kind of relationship in the salon isn’t the responsibility of one person.

Last week I had a new guest who wanted me to do something to her hair that…based on my experience and her texture, wasn’t something I would normally recommend.

So I shared my personal opinion… sharing what my concerns were, and what I would recommend.

And then I remembered:
This is their hair.
And hair is somatic.
It’s part of how we experience ourselves.
It is deeply connected to identity, expression and our nervous system.
They know how it feels in relationship to their mind and body.

And they have agency, the ability to have a voice and make choices about themselves.

So I shared my professional perspective.
And then I listened.

And I did what they asked.
Not because my expertise suddenly didn’t matter.
But because expertise doesn’t require removing someone’s agency.

And you know what happened?
There was no power struggle. They didn’t have to fight to be heard. I didn’t have to fight to be right.

We found a way to work together.

And THIS is where I think relational skills belong in hairstylist education.

Not instead of technical skill.
Alongside it.
Because knowing how to cut hair is one skill.
Knowing how to be in relationship with the human whose hair you’re working with is another.

For the hairstylist, that might mean noticing your need to be right, communicating your expertise without controlling the outcome, listening without immediately fixing, and staying curious when you disagree.

For the guest, it might mean knowing you can ask questions, change your mind, say no, have a preference, and still be open to the expertise of the person working with your hair.

Neither person has to disappear.
The stylist doesn’t have to surrender their expertise and experience.
The guest doesn’t have to surrender their agency.

We bring the skill.
They bring the lived experience of you.
And we find a way to work together.

For goodness sake.How many ways have we learned to abandon ourselves just to be “good”?Maybe noticing is the beginning o...
08/29/2026

For goodness sake.

How many ways have we learned to abandon ourselves just to be “good”?

Maybe noticing is the beginning of coming back to ourselves.

Before and after.And also…never just before and after.Because our hair holds much meaning. How we’ve been taught to see ...
08/26/2026

Before and after.
And also…never just before and after.

Because our hair holds much meaning.
How we’ve been taught to see ourselves.
What we’ve been told is beautiful.
What we’ve learned to hide.
What we’re finally ready to let be seen.

Sometimes changing our hair simply gives something inside us permission to move and to be revealed.

08/23/2026

There are certain words I have a full body reaction to.
Not because words are inherently bad, but because I can feel the belief underneath them…
A magic in them.

Affordable.
Frizz.
Tame.
Fix.
Anti aging.
Bad hair.

These words can quietly tell us that something about ourselves needs to be corrected, controlled, hidden, or made more acceptable.
And after all these years behind the chair, I’ve become really curious about those messages.

I don’t want to call your texture “frizz” simply because it doesn’t behave like a smooth finish.
Smooth isn’t inherently better.
Texture isn’t inherently wrong.
Sometimes what we call frizz is simply movement, expansion, texture, personality, and hair being hair.

I don’t want to “tame” your hair like it’s misbehaving.

I don’t want to “fix” you.

And I don’t want to be anti aging you.

I want to be pro you.
Pro aging.
Pro changing.
Pro becoming.

And then there’s affordable.
This one has a particular edge for me.

Because affordability is personal.
What feels affordable to one person may feel completely out of reach for another. And that’s okay.

But calling something “unaffordable” can sometimes make the service itself sound unreasonable, rather than simply acknowledging:

“That isn’t within my beauty budget right now.”

Those are different things.
Behind the price is education, experience, artistry, continuing education, product, overhead, time, and a whole lot of being human with another human.

You don’t have to choose the service.
You don’t have to prioritize it.
It may not fit your budget.
But that doesn’t make the work itself less valuable.

Your beauty budget is personal.
So is the value you place on the experience.

Maybe that’s why these words hit my edges.

Because I don’t want to participate in a beauty culture that teaches us we’re broken, our hair is wrong, aging is something to fight, or that skilled work should automatically be made smaller to be more accessible.

I’m much more interested in language that gives us choice and sovereignty.

Not fixing.
Not fighting.
Not taming.

Just understanding, expressing, changing, and becoming.
And maybe… just

A haircut doesn’t change who you are…it’s a whisper, a nudge, an invitation, a catalyst revealing what’s waiting to be s...
08/22/2026

A haircut doesn’t change who you are…
it’s a whisper,
a nudge,
an invitation,
a catalyst revealing what’s waiting to be seen.

There’s a magic 🪄 about a haircut that is more than just removing hair.More times than not, we are ready to shed somethi...
08/21/2026

There’s a magic 🪄 about a haircut that is more than just removing hair.

More times than not, we are ready to shed something we’ve been carrying, too.

At the end of an appointment, I invite someone to name what they’re ready to release through playful curiosity.
A moment to explore without rules, without left brain insisting on a ‘right way’.

We put it on paper.
Maybe it’s a picture, maybe your signature, maybe a word and or many words of
a belief,
a version of themselves,
a relationship to something that no longer fits.

And then we move it onto paper.
From the head ♡︎ where we name it.
Through the heart ♡︎ where we feel it.
Into the hands ♡︎ where we make it real.

The intention is placed into the fire along with a little of the hair that has just been shed.

There’s a psychological piece to this that I find fascinating. We don’t only process change through thought. Our brains and bodies respond to sensory experience, symbolism, repetition and physical action.

So instead of simply thinking, I’m ready to let this go, we create a tangible moment that says:

I named it.
I felt it.
I acted on it.
I informed subconscious mind.
The ritual becomes a kind of punctuation mark.

And then there’s the alchemy of fire.🔥
Fire transforms.
It takes what was once physical and changes its form…
paper becomes ash,
hair becomes ash,
smoke rises
and what we held in our hands becomes something we can no longer hold.

In the ritual language I work with, this is where we release it into the unseen.
Into the elements.
Into the aether.

Not because the fire magically does the work for us.
But because we are giving ourselves a physical, emotional and symbolic moment to acknowledge that something has shifted.

Remember…
the haircut doesn’t transform you.

You do.
Sometimes we just need a ritual that helps us remember. 🔥😉

I know. I know. We’ve all heard it.“We’re hairdressers, not therapists.”And yes. Of course we aren’t.But I sometimes won...
08/18/2026

I know. I know. We’ve all heard it.
“We’re hairdressers, not therapists.”
And yes. Of course we aren’t.
But I sometimes wonder if we’ve leaned on that statement so hard that we’ve forgotten what actually happens in our chairs.

People don’t leave their humanity at the door.
They tell us about the divorce.
The diagnosis.
The baby they’re worried about.
The relationship they’re leaving.
The parent they’re losing.
The body they’re struggling to recognize.
The version of themselves they’re finally ready to let go of or let in.

And no, we aren’t there to diagnose, treat, rescue or fix any of it.

But we are there.
We listen.
We witness.
We hold a moment with another human being while they’re moving through something.

And honestly, I think that deserves more conversation in our industry.
Because there’s a difference between saying
“I’m here with you”
and believing
“I’m responsible for you.”

There’s a difference between emotional labor and human connection.
There’s a difference between holding space and absorbing someone’s pain.
There’s a difference between listening and fixing.

And then there’s the part we don’t talk about enough: our own edges and our own triggers.

Sometimes what someone brings into our chair touches something in us. And that’s where our work gets really interesting. Can I notice what’s happening in me without making it about you? Can I stay curious instead of reacting? Can I hear something I disagree with without needing to correct, convince or defend?

That’s not therapy. That’s self-awareness. And honestly, I think we need a whole lot more of it behind the chair.

I don’t want hairdressers to become therapists.

I want us to get better at being humans with humans.

To learn how to care deeply without taking everything home with us.
The answer isn’t to care less.
It’s to learn how to care without abandoning ourselves in the process.

There are some conversations that remind me why I love this work so damn much. 🥹When Heather called to book this appoint...
08/14/2026

There are some conversations that remind me why I love this work so damn much. 🥹

When Heather called to book this appointment, I remember feeling so deeply honored. There is something about being trusted by someone you know and love to walk with them through a change in how they see themselves that I don’t take lightly.

And then I received these messages afterward.🥰
They remind me of the richness of what I actually get to do.

I mean just look at the lengths and density of hair she’s holding in these photos … and what you can’t see is everything that came with letting them go.🔥

Years of growing it.
The identity attached to it.
The story that long hair was somehow the “glory.”
The ways we can make ourselves uncomfortable in the name of what we think we’re supposed to look like.

And then…
“Everyone loved it and some said it was the ‘real’ me.”

That line stopped me and I let every word sink in
because I want the courage and bravery it takes to make a change like this to never be overlooked.

It gets celebrated here.✨

Maybe the goal was never the longest hair, the most polished hair, or the hair we were told was our glory.

Maybe it’s simply having hair that feels like YOU.🫶

Heather, I am so honored you trusted me then, and I’m so honored I get to witness you now. And I’m especially grateful that somewhere along our journey, we became friends too. 🦋

These are the moments that remind me there is so much more richness in this work than what happens in the mirror.
And I am incredibly grateful to be here for it.

Today feels like a little cosmic wink.I mean a solar eclipse, planets gathering, the Perseids raining across tonight’s s...
08/12/2026

Today feels like a little cosmic wink.
I mean a solar eclipse, planets gathering, the Perseids raining across tonight’s sky, and a new moon.
The sky is doing a lot of
gathering, shifting, concealing, revealing, aligning.

Which pretty much sums up how I’ve been feeling myself because something has been brewing.
Something I don’t quite have all the language for yet.

I’ve been pulling on a thread that started in my chair but keeps leading me somewhere much bigger.

A frame work.
SEE.
NOTICE.
HOLD.
WITNESS.

I’ve been exploring what it means to really see another person without immediately deciding who they are.
To notice what is happening in them, in me, and between us.

To hold without carrying.
To witness without fixing.
To stay connected without abandoning myself.

And the more I sit with it, the more I realize this isn’t just beauty work.

It’s relational work… a practice.
It’s a life work.

And maybe I’m not supposed to have it all figured out yet.
Maybe I’m supposed to be gestating it and letting it take shape.

Listening.
Learning.
Growing something from all the things I’ve lived, practiced, unlearned and witnessed over these years.

So today, while the sky is doing its own strange and beautiful rearranging…

I’m paying attention to what’s rearranging in and for me, too.
Something is coming.
I can feel it.
But for now…
I’m letting it brew.

The sweetest reveal. 🤍
08/11/2026

The sweetest reveal. 🤍

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