10/10/2026
💚 World Mental Health Day 💚
Losing a child is something no parent can ever prepare for. The grief of losing Lila has changed me physically, mentally, and emotionally in ways I never could have imagined.
Before our journey with Lila, I never fully understood how serious mental health struggles could be. After her passing, I began experiencing PTSD, depression, and anxiety—and I learned firsthand that mental health is just as important as physical health.
Lila’s Fund has become my way of coping and turning some of my pain into purpose. Helping families who are caring for critically ill children brings me comfort and reminds me that Lila’s life continues to make a difference. In many ways, Lila’s Fund is my grief therapy.
But purpose does not erase grief. I still struggle. There are moments when it feels like nothing will help because all I truly want is Lila back here with us. I want to understand why she was taken from us so soon. Those are questions I may never have answers to, and that pain is something I carry every day.
Today, I am sharing my story because mental health struggles are real, and no one should feel ashamed or alone because of them. Please be kind, listen without judgment, and check on the people you love—even the ones who appear strong.
Sometimes the strongest people are carrying the heaviest pain. 💚
If you or someone you know needs immediate emotional support, call or text 988. The 988 Lifeline is free, confidential, and available 24/7.
