06/02/2026
I’m seeing a trend on IG these days where everything is being blamed on perimenopause.
Here’s the deal. We can’t blame all of our problems on perimenopause. We must take responsibility.
Here’s the truth. Yes, our hormones start declining around age 35, starting with progesterone.
But are you in perimenopause at 39 or under? Probably not.
The symptoms of fatigue, increased PMS, increased anxiety, low s*x drive, etc is most likely the accumulation of decades of stress, running on coffee for breakfast ,having kids without replacing lost minerals, people pleasing, the demands of motherhood, wife hood, daughter hood, undereating , etc. And yes…all of these things can cause your hormones to decline.
If you’re in this category, I say this in the nicest way possible…stop blaming your poor diet & lifestyle solely on perimenopause. Stop looking for bHRT as the magic bullet to fix your decades of wear to your body.
(Side note…If I hear of one more 20 or 30 year old being put on testosterone to help fix their fatigue& low s*x drive I may go crazy. This is not doing them any favors. It’s symptom care relief and will backfire.)
Now, what if it is really perimenopause? If you’re 40+ it most likely is.
But it still doesn’t give you the excuse to act like an emotionally dysregulated tornado& blame it all on perimenopause.
I get it. I’ve been there. But I stepped up & took RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY & set in the foundations to give my body what it was craving. The safety, the routine, the nourishment. And I replaced my hormones with physiologic rhythmic bHRT. Right now at 40 I only require progesterone & thyroid. Not everyone at 40 needs HRT.
What are your thoughts?