Kin Woman Collective

03/29/2022

And learn when misery loves company. If you need to process but the feedback you're getting is them also emotionally dumping and finding similarities in what you're sharing, you're not getting the space you need to filter.

There are conversations where others reflect back to us what we're doing well and what we need to work on.

Then...there are conversations where, neither one is helping the other because now we're just having a woe is me festival.

You can relate without chaos bonding.

02/10/2022

I love women's work. Everyone focuses on addressing all that the world has endured from patriarchy but, I like to think of the matriarchy. The women. The mothers, daughters, aunts, grandmothers, and sister friends.

Anytime a woman calls another weak, unworthy, she calls that to herself
Anytime a woman scolds a young girl about her body, soul and spirit, she sows a seed of jealousy and hate, which are reflections of how she truly feels about herself

But the real question is, what is the foundation of the wounded feminine? What is it's source?

I've been guilty of judging others too, until I realized that it was my hurt speaking.

I've been in love with the heart and soul of women, when I'm rooted in my own power and divinity.

But my foundation comes from understanding the story before me. My foremothers and seeing the God and humanity in them.

A healing woman is a magnet for all things, and until she roots out the poison in her own blood, the wounded feminine will continue in victimhood, power plays and manipulative tactics for identity.

The wounded feminine fawns, can be aggressive, is impatient, doesn't understand the metaphorical importance of the life from conception to birth, and its contribution to her peace. She will compete with her own children or abuse their sense of self. She's always waiting to be rescued or to eat her own children out of jealousy.

But she can learn to gather her bones and sing over her spirit. She must learn the language of heart, womb and spirit.

12/09/2021

Attachment. Secure attachment is trusting that life here now. Tomorrow is it's own friend.

12/06/2021

Grief is the messenger who acknowledges what we know to be true, that we belong, to self, each other, and the planet.

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11/22/2021

I revel in the spirit of new beginnings. The spirit of community, holding space for both the young and my elders in the community. My events are a window into what happens when the collective heart desires harmony, joy, and a space to be seen, heard, and understood. This upcoming holiday and Kwanzaa season, I'm excited to be bringing this magic to you all starting with a An African Ankara Soiree at and a very Kwanzaa Celebration at .

I'm looking forward to hosting these events for our souls.

11/18/2021

Tell the Damn Story!

11/15/2021

10/23/2021

Ah I have come to love the deep dive into expression that seems to happen after stages of solitude and inner work. It's a beautiful thing to see that you're no longer just doing the work. You are the work. Don't be focused on crossing every stage off your healing and transformation journey that you miss out on the aha moments.