10/27/2026
“Being a mother shouldn’t make her too tired to be a wife.”
Really? Let's unpack that.
Motherhood doesn't erase a woman's s*xuality. But neither does marriage erase her humanity.
When a woman spends her days caring for children, managing a household, carrying the mental load, and meeting everyone else's needs, exhaustion isn't a failure of her role as a wife. It's a signal that something needs attention.
And intimacy isn't another chore she owes someone at the end of an exhausting day.
Desire needs room to breathe. Connection requires participation from BOTH partners.
Instead of asking why she's too tired to be a wife, perhaps we should ask: What are we doing to make sure she has the energy, emotional bandwidth, and desire to be a lover?
Because being a wife is so much more than being s*xually available.
What do you think? Let's have this conversation. 👇
