06/09/2026
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Grandma’s Banana Pudding
Some recipes become part of the family language.
They appear at summer cookouts, church potlucks, funeral gatherings, and Sunday lunches after everyone has finally settled into the kitchen. They are made from memory more than measurement — softened bananas on the counter, vanilla wafers stacked in the pantry, handwritten cards tucked inside old recipe tins.
Banana pudding is one of those recipes.
Maybe because it’s simple.
Maybe because it tastes like childhood.
Or maybe because certain desserts become attached to the people who loved us well.
This version feels like something pulled from a grandmother’s kitchen drawer — the kind of recipe card stained with vanilla and passed around after someone says:
“Can somebody write this down before we lose it?”
Grandma’s Banana Pudding
Ingredients
* 2 (3.4 oz.) packages instant vanilla pudding
* 3 cups cold milk
* 1 (14 oz.) can sweetened condensed milk
* 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
* 1 (8 oz.) container whipped topping
* 6–7 bananas, sliced
* 1 box vanilla wafers
Directions
In a large bowl, whisk together the pudding mix and cold milk for about 2 minutes. Let stand for 5 minutes until slightly thickened.
Stir in the sweetened condensed milk and vanilla extract. Fold in the whipped topping until smooth and creamy.
In a 9x13 dish, layer vanilla wafers, sliced bananas, and pudding mixture. Repeat the layers, ending with pudding on top. Finish with additional vanilla wafers if desired.
Cover and chill for at least 4 hours, though overnight is even better.
Serve cold, preferably surrounded by people you love.
A Gentle Reminder
Sometimes grief arrives through recipes.
Through the smell of vanilla.
The sound of a spoon against a glass dish.
The memory of someone standing barefoot in the kitchen making dessert without needing to look at the instructions.
Food has a way of keeping people near.
And maybe that’s part of healing too.
