07/26/2026
Pacifier shapes and uses explained so well by LA Lactation!!
Walk into any baby store and youâll find an entire wall of pacifiers.
Round. Orthodontic. Flat. Symmetrical. Cherry. âBreast-likeâ. Glow in the dark. Silicone. Natural rubber.
The packaging often promises the âbestâ shape for oral development. Which can make picking one so challenging.
As a SLP/IBCLC, I donât believe thereâs one perfect pacifier for every baby. The shape matters less than how, when, and how long itâs used.
đź First, letâs remember what breastfeeding actually looks like. During breastfeeding, we want to see the tongue create a deep cupped shape around the ni**le and areolar tissue. The sides of the tongue lift up around the ni**le while the middle of the tongue forms a groove that helps hold the breast securely. Gentle wave-like movements from front to back help remove milk while the jaw opens widely and rhythmically. A breast isnât held in the mouth by suction alone. Itâs an incredibly coordinated movement involving the tongue, jaw, lips, cheeks, palate, and nervous system. That beautiful cupping pattern is what we often work to encourage in babies who struggle with latch.
đ¤ Sleep is a little different. When babies are resting and not actively feeding, we want the tongue to relax up against the roof of the mouth. The tongue resting against the palate supports healthy nasal breathing and normal development of the upper jaw.
So feeding and resting actually involve two different tongue postures. One requires active cupping and peristaltic movement. The other is quiet, relaxed elevation of the tongue.
đź So what about pacifier shapes?
The three most common designs are:
⢠Round (Cherry)
The round shape (think Philips Avent Soothie, Dr Browns Happy Paci, Ninni co, Momi, Nanobebe) allows the tongue to cup around it. I often like these when weâre working on suck training because they encourage babies to organize a more rounded tongue shape. Some babies who struggle with tongue coordination respond beautifully to them. They are not all created equal and some are better than others at promoting the wide, deep latch of the breast
⢠Orthodontic
Usually flattened on the bottom with a rounded top. (Nuk, Ryan&Rose, Chicco all have these shapes) The idea is to reduce pressure on developing teeth and encourage the tongue upward against the palate.
⢠Flat
The Mam is the most common flat pacifier, but other brands like Dr Browns Advantage, Cutie Pat, etc also have them. Because the tongue doesnât have to cup they can be easier for some babies to keep them on their mouth. Iâve also seen babies who gag easily on the round pacifiers tolerate these better for soothing. Some babies strongly prefer these while others simply wonât keep them in.
Every baby is different. Some babies immediately spit out every round pacifier but happily soothe with a flat one. Others gag easily on longer pacifiers but can do ok when itâs shorter. Some wonât take any pacifier at all. Some take anything you put in their mouth. We have to look at the unique baby to determine which pacifier could be a good option for them based on why we are using it.
There is currently no strong evidence that one pacifier shape is universally superior for every babyâs oral development. In fact, the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry has specifically called for more research comparing pacifier designs because the evidence simply isnât definitive yet.
𦷠What the research does show is something different. The biggest concern isnât usually the shape. Its duration, intensity, and frequency.
A baby who sucks vigorously on any pacifier for hours every day over many months places repeated pressure on developing teeth, the palate, and the growing jaws. That prolonged force (not simply the silicone shape itself) is what has been associated with changes such as anterior open bite, posterior crossbite, and narrowing of the upper arch. The longer the habit continues, particularly beyond toddlerhood, the greater the likelihood of these changes.
Every babyâs oral anatomy is also unique. A baby with a naturally high palate, strong suck, oral tension, tongue restriction, low muscle tone, or different jaw growth may respond differently to the exact same pacifier.
Thatâs one reason I hesitate when lactation consultants recommend one shape as âthe best for breast.â
Human development simply isnât one-size-fits-all.
â¤ď¸ How I recommend using pacifiers
I think pacifiers are wonderful tools. Tools. Every tool has a specific job for a specific reason.
⢠Helping babies settle in the car.
⢠Transitioning to sleep during naps and bedtime.
⢠During ârest and digestâ time when babies simply need comfort.
⢠During medical procedures.
⢠For some babies, supporting organized non-nutritive sucking to support sucking during feeds.
I donât recommend using a pacifier to stretch feeds or convince a hungry baby to wait longer to eat. Hunger should always come first. And once the pacifier has done its job? Take it out. If your baby falls asleep and it gently falls from their mouth, you donât need to keep replacing it throughout the nap. In fact, the AAP advises that if it falls out after the baby is asleep, thereâs no need to put it back. The pacifierâs job is to help the baby soothe, not continuous suck all day long.
đď¸ When should you wean?
There isnât one magical birthday. However, hereâs what many pediatric and dental organizations recommend:
⢠Around 6â12 months, begin gradually limiting pacifier use to sleep and comforting situations.
⢠By 2 to 3 years, most children should be completely weaned to minimize the risk of lasting dental changes. The AAP recommends dental evaluation if non-nutritive sucking continues beyond age 3, while the AAPD encourages discontinuing pacifier habits by 36 months.
⨠My approach?
If Iâm doing suck training or helping improve tongue organization, I often reach for a round pacifier because I like how it allows the tongue to cup around it. The Ninni Co, Dr Brownâs Happy Paci and Avent Soothie all have a place with different babies for working on different oral motor skills
If weâre simply using a pacifier occasionally for soothing or sleep? Iâm much less concerned about whether itâs round, orthodontic, or flat. Iâd rather choose the one your baby actually accepts, use it thoughtfully, and avoid having it in their mouth all day.
Because in the end, healthy oral development isnât determined by one piece of silicone. Itâs shaped by feeding, breathing, muscle function, genetics, growth, and the countless little experiences that help a babyâs mouth develop over time.
Pacifiers can absolutely have a place in that journey,
they just work best when theyâre used intentionally, not constantly.
Iâm curious⌠did your baby have a strong preference for one pacifier shape, or refuse them all?
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