10/05/2026
If you were the girl who learned that being a “good athlete” meant shutting up, playing hurt, and never letting anyone see you scared… hi. I’m talking to you.
I was a 4-year varsity pitcher, 2× Michigan Division I All-State athlete, and 2× USSSA World Series medalist.
I also learned really young to confuse being good with being perfect.
No-hitter? Good.
Win? Good.
Hurt? Keep playing.
Scared? Don’t show it.
Something feels wrong? Figure it out later.
That s**t follows you.
Now I’m back in softball as a coach and work professionally in sport science + female-athlete performance, and I care a lot less about whether an athlete can “tough it out” and a lot more about what is happening underneath the performance.
Because she can smile.
She can play.
She can win.
She can still not be okay.
And I do not want another girl learning that being a good athlete means ignoring her body until it breaks.
If you played softball, or any sport, and this feels a little too familiar, you’re exactly who I want here.