08/27/2026
HOW DO WE KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHAT’S REAL AND WHAT’S IMAGINED?
I was feeling anxious about something recently and I stopped and asked myself:
“Am I anxious…or am I excited?”
Because the thing is, our body can respond to something we’re imagining in much the same way it responds to something that’s actually happening.
Your heart races.
Your palms sweat.
Your stomach flips.
Your energy increases.
Your body doesn’t necessarily know: “This is real” or “This is something I’m imagining might happen.”
It just responds and that’s where things get really interesting. Sometimes in stuck in a loop.
Sometimes anxiety and excitement can feel identical physiologically.
The difference can be how we interpret and label what we’re feeling.
“I’m anxious. Something bad might happen” vs “I’m excited. Something is about to happen, and I don’t know what it is yet.”
Same physiological response. Different meaning. Different experience.
We have to become aware enough to have the ability to flip the script.
Not by pretending the anxiety or feeling isn’t real, but by stopping long enough to ask what is it?
Because sometimes the only thing we know for sure is that something is happening in our body.
Can we stay curious with the feeling instead of assuming the meaning we have always given it?
That’s where we have the power.
In this short clip from the podcast, mind-body conversations with Lisa and Elizabeth I discussed how the mind-body connection shows up and how we can challenge those uncomfortable emotions.