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Feel intimidated walking into a gym. We hear this all the time. Gyms. Are. No worries!

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Personalized online fitness coaching, diet and accountability coaching for the over 40 year old. Whether you train with us virtually or in-person you will have access to our three pillars to success - fitness, nutrition and accountability. Personalized Fitness Coaching…
Let’s be honest, for a lot of people the most intim

idating part of the Body Transformation puzzle is the gym. Feel embarrassed and think everyone is looking at them. Feel confused about how to perform exercises safely and effectively. Intimidating. But, we’re not a gym. We are a coaching company that will provide you with the exact exercises, workouts and programs you need to feel strong, mobile and young (again). The best thing about our fitness program (other than it being customized to you) is that the entire workout can be done 100% remotely with minimal equipment. You literally never have to step foot in a gym if you don’t want to. Remote not your thing and your local to Enfield NH…AND you want to be coached in person? We offer personal training AND small group personal training classes. Can’t make a work out in person? We also offer zoom classes so that we can coach you virtually in real time. As long as you have an internet connection we can deliver the fitness piece to you, 100% customized. We really want you to Own Your Fitness. How will I know I am doing the exercises correctly? Great question! In our system your personalized workout will live in our fitness app. Every workout will have videos to show you how to perform the movement as well as coaching cues to help you understand what you should and shouldn’t be feeling. As long as you have an internet connection, we will be able to give the fitness piece to you. Custom Nutrition Coaching
While the gym is generally the most intimidating part of changing your body, the diet is the most important piece. Every body transformation has two phases:
Body Transformation – Phase 1
Maintenance – Phase 2

Most programs never talk about Phase 2, which is why 99% of people that we talk to tend to fail when they get to Phase 2. Maintenance is the END GOAL! Losing 50 lbs is great…but not if you put it back on a year later. Generally people are not successful in phase 2 because they do things in phase 1 that they will not do for the rest of their life. What you do in phase 1, creates the success you will have in phase 2. If phase 1 is full of crash dieting, 1000 calorie plans, no food you actually enjoy eating you will probably get results, but you most certainly won’t keep them. In our system we will teach you how you can still eat the foods you enjoy (like carbs) and get the results you want. Our system is different because we don’t follow an overly restrictive diet plan that has you cut out all the foods you enjoy. Our system is literally designed for you to be successful at long term maintenance. Support and Accountability
The best laid out program is meaningless if you don’t have someone making sure you are following the plan…and that the plan is working. Our accountability pillar is literally our (not that) secret sauce that holds everything together and it’s the main reason why we have such a high success rate of people hitting their goals. Phone calls? Check.
24/7 text support? Check. Daily results monitoring? Weekly check ins? An app that literally tells you what to do every day? Once we create your plan, we will be following up with you weekly to ensure you are seeing the results you came to us for. Plan too hard to follow? We can change it. Have an achy knee when you’re hiking? Let’s hop on a call and see what’s going on. Not seeing the results you want? Let’s troubleshoot and find out why. Going on vacation for a week? Let’s come up with a plan to ensure you don’t gain 10 lbs. With our accountability coaching, you literally have two coaches on call to make sure you are getting the results you came to us for.

How to lose weight without losing your strength💪The goal isn’t just to become smaller.The goal is to lose body fat while...
06/02/2026

How to lose weight without losing your strength💪

The goal isn’t just to become smaller.

The goal is to lose body fat while keeping as much muscle and strength as possible.

Because muscle matters — especially as we age.

It helps with metabolism, joints, posture, bone health, daily life, and that “toned” look most women are actually after.

So if you’re trying to lose weight, here are 6 things to focus on:
1. 💪Keep lifting weights
Your body needs a reason to hold onto muscle. Strength training gives it that reason.
2. 🥩Eat protein at every meal
Protein helps support muscle, recovery, and fullness while you’re in a calorie deficit.
3. ❌Don’t slash calories too low
Eating less is part of fat loss, but eating too little can crush your energy, workouts, and recovery.
4. 🍟Keep some carbs in your life
Carbs help fuel your workouts, walks, and normal human behavior. We like that.
5. 📝Track more than the scale
Pay attention to strength, energy, measurements, how your clothes fit, and how you feel.
6. 😘Be patient
You may not hit PRs every week while losing weight, but maintaining strength while fat comes off is a huge win.

Weight loss is great.

But losing weight while keeping your muscle, strength, energy, and confidence?

That’s the goal.

Lift. Eat protein. Walk. Repeat.

That’s the boring 🪄magic.

"I see you…”That’s something I tell Jamie when I see her do something hard.Something that pushes her outside her comfort...
05/19/2026

"I see you…”

That’s something I tell Jamie when I see her do something hard.

Something that pushes her outside her comfort zone.

And this particular weekend, I saw it.

Jamie, like a lot of people, has moments of high anxiety. Especially in big, busy places she’s never been before. She likes to know what to expect. She does not love surprises.

We are not the same person. 🤪

Saturday morning, we were away visiting friends and decided to hit up Planet Fitness for a workout.

When we pulled in, this place was PACKED.

It was the biggest Planet Fitness I’ve ever seen. Over 50 treadmills, and most of them were full at 9 AM on a Saturday.

I looked around and thought, “Uh oh.”

Because I know Jamie. I know busy gyms can feel overwhelming for her. I know she has bailed on workouts before because the anxiety got too high.

But this time?

She looked at the building, said, “Wow, this is really busy…”

And then she walked right in.

We trained.
We lifted.
She crushed it.

When we got back to the car, I told her:

“I see you. I saw you do that hard thing. And I’m proud of you.”

Because here’s the truth…

Doing hard things is part of life.

But doing hard things with someone in your corner? Someone who notices? Someone who encourages you instead of judging you?

That makes it a whole lot easier.

Someone who says:
“I see you showing up 3 days last week.”
“I see you hitting your steps when life is busy.”
“I see you getting stronger.”
“I see you losing 10 pounds.”

That’s what coaching is to us.

Yes, we write the workouts.
Yes, we help with nutrition.
Yes, we teach form and technique.
But we also see the person behind the goal.

Our “I See You” Summer Special is 30 days for $199.

It includes:
✅ Unlimited in-house and online classes coached by us
✅ A Jump Start Nutrition Plan to help you lean up and feel better
✅ Workouts adjusted to your ability
✅ Support, coaching, and someone in your corner

No guessing.
No confusion.
No walking into a gym wondering what the heck to do.

Want the details?

Comment “SEEN” below and we’ll send you the info.
Hugs and Muscles,
Coach Ben

I have a gym membership” timeline👇👉Stage 1 – I have a gym membership. But I don’t go, because I don’t know what to do. I...
05/12/2026

I have a gym membership” timeline👇
👉Stage 1 – I have a gym membership. But I don’t go, because I don’t know what to do. I hate being judged and feel like everyone is staring at me. I don’t know what to do!
Pays for a gym membership for years, never goes.

👉Stage 2 – I need to do something. I have been paying for a gym membership for a year and have only gone twice. I am going to go and get on a treadmill tonight.
Goes to the gym for a few weeks/months. Sees some changes – a little weight loss, clothes fitting a little better, feeling a little bit more confident, etc. But nothing earth shattering. 😥Gives up eventually. “Why waste the time for no results?”

👉Stage 3 – Alright, this time I REALLY need to do something. My clothes don’t fit anymore. My spouse never wants to get freaky. I feel so gross. But I don’t know what to do! I’ll look online for a program or ask Chat. Back to the gym! But this time….free weights. Follows a plan written by ChatGPT. Sees some major changes! Clothes fitting better, more confidence, stronger, glute and arm definition! Spouse can’t keep their hands off them. All is going in the right direction, finally. Gets injured the 2nd month due to poor form. Stays at it. Injured in Month 5 for lifting too heavy, too often, too much. Must put the gym on hold for Physical Therapy. Now it’s been 3 years of paying for a gym membership and using it 10% of the time.

👉Stage 4 – Injury healed! Motivated to get back in, but terrified to injure themselves again. Hires a trainer to learn proper technique. Works with them for a few months, graduates. Asks the trainer to continue to write their program since the trainer knows them. Pays the trainer for an ongoing program design.

❤️𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙛𝙖𝙫𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝘼𝙍𝙏❤️
Get’s the body they’ve always wanted.
Doctor says their health is fantastic.
Feels amazing in clothes.
Feels even better naked 😉
All is good.

Joining a gym is a great first step.
But if you’ve ever walked in and thought, “Okay… now what?” you are definitely not alone.

Most people don’t struggle because they aren’t trying.
They struggle because they don’t have a clear plan, enough support, or someone helping them stay consi

Rest between sets matters.And like most things in fitness… it depends.A lot of people either rush their rest because the...
04/21/2026

Rest between sets matters.
And like most things in fitness… it depends.

A lot of people either rush their rest because they want to “keep the workout moving,” or they sit around way too long scrolling their phone and losing momentum.

💯The truth?
Your rest should match the exercise, the effort, and your current fitness level.

In most cases, most people do not need 3–5 minutes of rest between sets unless they are lifting very heavy, doing big compound movements, or training more like a powerlifter.

For most 🏋️♀️ workouts, 1–2 minutes is plenty.

Here’s a simple way to think about it👇
👉If you just finished a hard set of squats, deadlifts, RDLs, or another big full-body lift, you may need closer to 2 minutes.
👉If you just did a set of curls, lateral raises, or another smaller movement, you probably do not need that long.

A better 😘 approach is personalized rest👇
👉If you are still breathing hard, take more time.
👉If the muscle you just trained still feels smoked, take more time.
👉If your grip, lower back, or other supporting muscles still feel fatigued, take more time.
👉If you have another tough set coming up and you mentally feel like “absolutely not yet,” take a little more time.

On the flip🙃side...
If you feel fully recovered, your breathing is under control, and the muscle is ready to go, you do not need to drag the workout out longer than necessary.

🧘♀️Bonus tip:
Use active recovery.
Instead of sitting there like a statue between sets, stand up, walk around, shake things out, reset, and get ready for the next round.

Rest is not lazy.
Rest helps you perform better.

But too much rest when you do not need it?
That can turn a solid workout into a 2-hour field trip and we don't have time for that.

We are proteinmaxxing big time! and rightfully so😘No other nutrient has the power of protein. All jokes aside. Let's tak...
04/14/2026

We are proteinmaxxing big time! and rightfully so😘

No other nutrient has the power of protein. All jokes aside. Let's take a dive into some serious protein facts.

Some protein facts you probably didn’t know👇
- As we get 👵 older, we need more protein.
- Not eating enough protein leads to higher incidences of depression and anxiety due to lacking certain Amino Acids needed to build specific neurotransmitters.
- Did you know protein is made up of Amino Acids? Those amino acids are broken down into essential and non-essential. Essential you must get through your 🥗diet.
- Did you know total protein intake matters MORE🎯 than when you have that protein?
- Protein gives us energy; amino acids allow us to rebuild/repair and make 💪new tissue.
- The protein “recommendations” you typically read about might lead you to turn into a chicken 😉 (because you are eating so much of it!). Too high for some, too low for others.
- Protein 🔥burns three times the calories required for digestion compared to carbs and fat. Ever heard of the meat sweats?!
- The more protein you eat in your diet, the more calories you can 😍consume.

One week from today we will be launching our FREE community 21 Day Midlife Muscle Makeover. This is a 100% free group for WOMEN over 40 where we share all of the tips, secrets and tactics around protein and mindset for change.

Interested? Comment 💪 below and I’ll send you the form to fill out.
We don’t allow everyone into the group 😉

04/07/2026

A lot of women are talking about GLP-1s right now.

Some are on them. Some are considering them. Some are just trying to figure out how they even feel about it all.

And honestly… there can be a lot of emotion wrapped up in it.

Relief that something is finally helping.
Hope that change feels possible.
Fear of doing it wrong.
Pressure to lose weight fast.
Worry about what happens next.

If that’s you, here’s my little love note:
If you’re losing weight, please take care of yourself while your body is changing.

Not because you need to be perfect.
Not because you need more rules.
But because you still need support through the process.

That still looks a lot like the basics:
eating 3 meals a day,
getting in protein,
drinking your water,
sleeping,
and strength training.

Nothing flashy.
Nothing dramatic.
Just the stuff that helps you feel better, stay stronger, and support your body through the weight loss.

Because you do not just want a lower number on the scale.
You want to feel strong.
You want energy.
You want to keep muscle.
You want to come out the other side of this feeling like you, not just smaller.

GLP-1s can be a helpful tool.

But your body still needs nourishment, care, and support while it’s changing.

So if you’re in this season right now, this is your reminder:
Take the help.
Take the pressure off.

But do not stop taking care of yourself in the process.

I’ve never had a client that came to us later in life and said “I really wish I hadn’t prioritized myself so much when I...
03/31/2026

I’ve never had a client that came to us later in life and said “I really wish I hadn’t prioritized myself so much when I was working with you.”

Boundaries? Self-Respect? Family first. If you want to change how you look/feel...you need to prioritize your goals, MORE than you do everyone else’s.

That means creating boundaries.
That means adhering to a schedule.
That means saying “No”, sometimes.
This is a hard truth for most people to swallow.

But don’t get it wrong – it is a truth. A fact😘

You come first. Plane going down? If you don’t put the oxygen mask on yourself first, you aren’t around to see if anyone survives the crash.

This means you prioritize yourself first then others.

We do not all have the same 24 hours. Some people are juggling a whole lot more than others. Prioritizing yourself is hard, no doubt about it, but sooner or later it has to become important too.

From my perspective… I can tell you there is a big difference when Coach Jamie takes care of herself first.

She has a much clearer head.
She handles stress better.
She has more energy.
And she’s a lot less likely to be running around like she had 5 cups of coffee and 47 things going on at once 😘

That version of her is better for everyone around her.

Also… maybe your family doesn’t need more of your time.
Maybe they need the better version of you that shows up after sleep, movement, and taking care of yourself first. 😘

So what can this look like👇
-Set a workout time at least 2 days a week to start. Put it on the calendar and treat it like it matters.
-If your family is awake and up your butt while you’re trying to do it, let them witness it. They can see what it looks like when mom takes care of herself too. 😉
-Write your name on your meals so nobody eats your food.
Go to bed 30 minutes earlier.

These aren’t huge changes, but they can make a huge difference in how you feel, how you handle stress, and how you show up at home.

Reaching health/physique goals is hard enough, don’t make it impossible because you won’t prioritize yourself enough. You deserve it! 💪Coach Ben

“Did you feed yourself?”A real question I asked a client on Monday.She had the house to herself on Sunday.No husband. No...
03/24/2026

“Did you feed yourself?”
A real question I asked a client on Monday.

She had the house to herself on Sunday.
No husband. No kids. No one asking her for anything.

Sounds like a dream, right moms? 😅

But instead of using that time to recharge, eat decent meals, and take care of herself… she kind of said screw it and checked out.

And honestly? A lot of moms do this.

Why is it that the second nobody needs us, we stop showing up for ourselves too?
We stay up too late.
We don’t eat actual meals.
We pick at snacks.
We skip structure.

Then Monday hits and we feel tired, puffy, behind, and annoyed.

And in my opinion, a lot of it comes back to the basics:
lack of sleep and lack of nutritious meals.

Which is funny because that’s exactly what we preach to our kids, right?
Go to bed.
Eat real food.
Drink your water.
Meanwhile mom is over here running on coffee, crusts, and bad decisions 😂

Here’s the part I want you to hear though:
You do not need to flip your whole life upside down to do better.

Start with baby steps:
1. Eat one actual meal before you start snacking.
Not bites. Not scraps. A real meal with protein.
2. Stop treating alone time like throwaway time.
You don’t need to earn rest or food just because nobody else is home.
3. Set yourself up earlier in the day.
If you know evenings get messy, decide ahead of time what breakfast and lunch look like.
4. Go to bed like you tell your kids to.

Annoying advice? Yes. Still solid? Also yes.

Sometimes the most honest question we can ask ourselves is:
Did you feed yourself?

Because for a lot of moms, that’s where the spiral starts.

Take care of yourself like you matter too.
Because you do. ❤️Coach Jamie

🧠 QUICK GYM FACTSkipping rest days won’t make you stronger — it might slow your progress! 🛑Muscles grow when you recover...
03/21/2026

🧠 QUICK GYM FACT
Skipping rest days won’t make you stronger — it might slow your progress! 🛑
Muscles grow when you recover, not just when you lift.
✅ Sleep
✅ Rest
✅ Recovery = GAINZ

If you want to build or keep muscle, protein timing matters.We don’t store protein the same way we store carbs and fat.C...
03/17/2026

If you want to build or keep muscle, protein timing matters.

We don’t store protein the same way we store carbs and fat.

Carbs are stored as glycogen to be used for energy later.
Fat is stored as triglycerides to be used for energy later.
Protein is different. Your body uses it to build and repair tissue.

If your body needs protein, specifically amino acids, and you’re not getting enough from your diet, it will pull from its own tissue to get what it needs.

Yep. Your body will break down its own muscle to fill in the gaps.

That’s a big reason some people lose muscle, struggle to keep it, or have a hard time building more of it in the first place.

So if your goal is to build muscle, keep muscle, support recovery, and keep your metabolism working for you, you need to give your body protein consistently throughout the day.

Aim for a solid serving every 3–4 hours instead of trying to cram it all in at dinner.
And if you’re a woman over 40, this matters even more.

Muscle is not just about looking toned.

It helps support your metabolism, strength, bone health, recovery, and how well you age.

Eat your protein. Then eat some more protein. Your future self will thank you.

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