06/17/2026
Many people think sleep just happens at the end of the day, but your body starts getting ready for rest hours before bedtime. Hormones like melatonin, cortisol, and progesterone respond to factors such as evening light, when you eat, your activity, and how safe you feel. How you wind down in the evening affects how well your body repairs itself during sleep.
Here are five ways to support that transition.
1. Start winding down earlier than feels necessary
It’s easy to think you can fall asleep as soon as you get into bed, but your body needs time to slow down from earlier activities. If you’re still working or messaging at 9:30pm, your nervous system might not relax just because you turn off the lights. Paying attention to the hour before bed can help. Even 15 minutes of quiet time, like sitting still, dimming the lights, or using something warm on your stomach, can tell your body it’s time to wind down.
2. Make your last meal warm and stabilizing
If you eat a very light dinner or skip it, especially when your cortisol is high, it can worsen your sleep. Low blood sugar at night can lead to restless or shallow sleep. Having a meal with complex carbs, fat, and protein helps keep your blood sugar steady. Foods like soup with rice, eggs with greens, and toast, or roasted root veggies with olive oil are good options for a warm, steady dinner.
3. Treat light as a hormonal signal
Blue light from screens tells your brain it’s still daytime, even if you’re ready for bed. If you often use your phone or computer at night, you might find it harder to relax. Switching to warm, dim lights after sunset can help your body make melatonin and prepare for sleep. You might notice you feel calmer before you see changes in your sleep quality.
4. Notice breath tension rather than tracking sleep metrics
Trying too hard to track or improve your sleep can actually make you more tense and make it harder to sleep. Instead, notice how your body feels as you get ready for bed. Check if your jaw is tight or your ribs feel stiff. Taking a slow breath out can help you relax and ease the pressure to fall asleep.
5. Let the day settle before closing your eyes
Unfinished thoughts don’t always feel like anxiety. They might show up as strange dreams, waking up early, or a busy mind, even when it’s quiet. Taking a moment to think about what’s still on your mind and what you’ve finished can help you let go. Your hormones repair better when your mind feels settled, so giving yourself a moment to process the day can help.
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