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06/17/2026

I think the #1 benefit of childbirth education is reducing fear. Fear of the unknown. Fear of our bodies. Fear of birth.

Fear will always exist. It’s supposed to. It’s protective. But it shouldn’t be in control during birth.

Learning how our bodies work, and not just what can go wrong, can make a significant impact on how we think about and experience pregnancy and birth.

For me, childbirth education isn’t a nice to have. It’s a must have. Our culture fails us when it comes to learning about and understanding our female bodies. I was in my late 30s when I learned there were four phases of our menstrual cycle! Let alone how birth works and how I can support my body and baby to have a smooth, more confident experience.

If you took a childbirth education class, what did you find helpful? What do you wish you had learned?

She looks pretty severe. And I’ve heard she was. Maybe that because she birthed 8 children at home in rural America and ...
06/16/2026

She looks pretty severe. And I’ve heard she was. Maybe that because she birthed 8 children at home in rural America and they all lived to adulthood.

Home birth wasn’t an atheistic. It was simply how most babies were born at that time.

When we talk about birth today, I think it’s important to hold two truths at once.

The past wasn’t perfect. Maternal and infant mortality were real and devastating realities. Modern medicine has saved countless mothers and babies.

And yet, women of previous generations also carried a deep cultural belief that birth was a normal part of life. They expected support. They expected to be capable. Birth belonged to families and communities, not just institutions.

I don’t think we should romanticize the past. I think it’s damaging and naive.

But I do think we can honor the strength, resilience, and wisdom of the women who came before us while embracing the advances that make birth safer today.

Looking at this photo, I’m grateful for both. And grateful to be the great-granddaughter of Emily Blum Wiley. Fun fact: I now own the house they were born in!

Every birth leaves a story behind.Not just the details of how a baby arrived, but the moments that changed us, challenge...
06/15/2026

Every birth leaves a story behind.

Not just the details of how a baby arrived, but the moments that changed us, challenged us, surprised us, and stayed with us long after the birth was over.

Join us for another Birth Story Circle—a space to listen, share, reflect, and connect with other mothers. No perfect birth required. No advice-giving. No judgment. Just real stories with real women.

Whether your birth was empowering, complicated, healing, disappointing, joyful, or all of those things at once, your story belongs here.

Because when we tell our stories, we remember we’re not alone.

📍 The Cary House
📅 Sunday, July 12th
⏰ 5:30 pm

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06/11/2026

Not going to lie, I almost got stuck in the coat.

Also not gonna lie about the necessary change in your role in pregnancy and birth. In the not so distant past, the final authority over birth was the doctor. What they said went, no questions asked. Mother’s voices and choices silenced. Mothers as authorities in their births, preposterous.

But the tide is changing. And, like most things, there are extremes. There are people who demonize medical care and refuse all intervention to the extent of harm to themselves or babies. There are still medical professionals who demand submission and treat mothers as inconvenient.

But from what I’m seeing? There is more collaboration. More compassion and rethinking how we approach low risk birth. There are more respectful conversations between providers and mother. There are more mothers who are done tolerating care that makes them feel fear-mongered, dismissed or overreactive. There is no better time to find your voice and your confidence than when you’re about to meet your child.

The old guard is out. And it’s making way for a better model of care. Be a part of the solution.

06/09/2026

Don’t overthink it and don’t make her make too many decisions that you could do yourself.

Support. Reassurance. Options. Encouragement. Love. Keep her moving. Keep her hydrated.

Keep it simple ❤️

05/29/2026

Hot take 🔥

Show up, have a baby and don’t die isn’t funny because women *actually* are showing up and dying.

We are swinging from one extreme to the next. An informed woman, who is educated about birth, trusts her physiology, who understands interventions and how/when they are used and has a voice in her birth shouldn’t be a threat to anyone. And if you’re triggered by women with “plans” - what’s that really about? Because it’s not about her.

Demanding more accountability from a system that has been causing preventable harm to women isn’t being unreasonable. I’d call it being a responsible consumer.

05/28/2026

Effacement matters! Dilation always steals the show, but you can’t have fully dilated cervix that is also firm. Especially if you’re a first time parent, much of the work in early labor is thinning the cervix. This is invisible work and doesn’t happen overnight. Dilation is only one piece of the equation and hardly the most important.

05/27/2026

Hospital systems need to change. There are definitely providers who are causing harm. AND there are still health care professionals who care about you and your birth. I’ve been witness to the horrible and the surprisingly supported.

Nuance is lost on social media. And every experience is individual. Let’s not demonize entire professions and expect them to be open to our perspective.

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