09/09/2026
I’ve been in spaces where sharing feels forced, and I know just how sh*tty that kind of pressure feels.
There’s a difference between inviting someone to lean into their edge and pushing them past their no.
That’s why choice matters so much to me in circle.
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DO SOMETHING JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE IS DOING IT. Sorry (not sorry) I had to yell that one.
You can pass.
You can sit something out.
You can change your mind.
Your. no. matters.
Pressure is still pressure, even when it’s happening in a circle, workshop, retreat, or some other supposedly supportive space.