Illuminated Space

09/14/2023

It's true, when other people love us we feel absolutely elated and it feels amazing. But what happens when our happiness and fulfillment is entirely reliant on other people?⁠
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What happens when those people you rely so heavily on for your happiness and fulfillment are unable to give you their love? Maybe they're having a bad day. Perhaps, they're busy and can't give you love when you need it the most.⁠
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This is why self-love is so important for everyone. It's about being self-reliant, independent, and taking back your own power to be happy.⁠
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Am I saying love from other people is bad? Absolutely not! On the contrary, when we have an abundance of love energy that we have engendered through self-love, getting it from other people will be like the whipped cream on top of your coffee—a bonus!⁠
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Do you rely on other people's love for your happiness?

09/01/2021

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12/11/2020

The pursuit of perfection, or believing you should be something other than you are right now, puts you in the chronic (and intrinsically untrue!) position of “not being good enough”. ⁠
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As long as you believe you should be something other than what you are in this moment, you are at war against yourself. And instead of generating love energy, your self-rejection is a major leak, keeping you trapped in an empty painful void. ⁠
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So how can you determine this love energy leakage? Look no further than one word: should. ⁠
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“Should” is a red flag word. When you hear yourself say it either spoken aloud or inside your head, pay attention! You have come against your perfection measuring stick. By thinking that you should be anything other than what you are in that moment, you are rejecting some aspect of yourself and creating a blockage in your love energy flow. ⁠
-⁠..I should have done that…⁠..I should be doing this…⁠..I shouldn’t feel this way…⁠..I should be like that…⁠
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Do you hold any shoulds in your life that may be holding you back from living authentically? Has any shoulds in your life made you feel guilt and shame?⁠
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11/18/2020

When you deny yourself forgiveness, you are withholding love from yourself. ⁠
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And let’s face it– when is withholding love ever a good thing?! Withholding love is one of the most painful, unnatural, unspiritual things you can do. Withholding love is never the answer. ⁠
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When you withhold love from yourself, you are actively (and energetically) punishing yourself. ✨⁠
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Yep, the opposite of self-forgiveness is self-punishment. 🤯⁠
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Let me say it again. The opposite of self-forgiveness is self-punishment.⁠
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In our Self-Forgiveness course, you'll learn how to forgive yourself and start giving yourself the love you deserve. You'll also learn how to meet your inner-child and apologize in the soul plane. 🌈⁠
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10/26/2020

Have you ever met your inner child?⁠
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Your inner child, as Jeremiah Abrams described, "is the carrier of our personal stories, the vehicle for our memories of both the actual child and an idealized child from the past. It is the truly alive quality of being within us. It is the soul, our experiencer throughout the cycles of life. It is the sufferer. And it is the bearer of renewal through rebirth, appearing in our lives whenever we detach and open to change."⁠
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Inner child work can be an extremely powerful tool to let go of the past or heal old wounds left behind as we grow up. These wounds, although in the distant past, can and often will affect how we see the world and how we interact with the world today.⁠
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We're big on self-love because self-love is the foundation to any spiritual work and healing. Self-love is essential for nurturing and cultivating a loving and compassionate relationship with your inner child because at the end of the day, your inner child is you!⁠
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If you like our content here, you'll LOVE our courses on Skillshare and Vimeo! Join over 500+ every day taking our courses to live a brighter and more fulfilled life.⁠
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10/21/2020

Hi Friends! We're excited to release a new course!

Can you imagine living without the soul-sucking burden of guilt? What if you lived out from under the chronic weight of this crippling and horrendous feeling?

Guilt can serve a purpose, but typically, it long outstays its welcome.

If you’re taking this course, you’re no stranger to guilt. You may be sitting on a painful burning pit of it, or it may be a chronic, low-grade sizzle creating a general discomfort in your life. Either way, I’m here to enlighten you on:

– What guilt is from the energetic perspective
– The damaging effects guilt has on your life
– How to neutralize it
– How to avoid it moving forward

You do not have to live with guilt. It is not healthy or beneficial to your life.

When you finally let go of guilt, you’ll feel a whole heckava lot better! You will notice that:

– Your frequency rises, uplifting your outlook and mood
– You naturally attract higher-frequency people and situations
– You release self-sabotaging tendencies
– You allow yourself to receive love and to be happy
– Your energetic flow improves, along with your physical health
– You are free to express your authentic self
– And so much more!

Are you ready to learn how to banish guilt and finally live life without it?!

Can you imagine living without the soul-sucking burden of guilt? What if you lived out from under the chronic weight of this crippling and horrendous feeling? Guilt…

10/19/2020

The fastest and surest route to lasting happiness is improving the relationship you have with yourself.⁠
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Yeah I said it.⁠
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Your outer world is a direct reflection of your inner world. Our guilt, shame, and past traumas all shape and mold how you view yourself and the world today.⁠
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There are so many self-care routines you can embark on, so many work out regiments you can challenge yourself with today the choices are endless!⁠
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But, there is one thing that is absolutely necessary in order to have a healthy relationship with yourself. Drum roll please...⁠
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You guessed it! Self-Love!⁠
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Self-love is an intention. It's the intention to compassionately honor and appreciate your own unique self and journey.⁠
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Let's take working out as an example. There are so many reasons to work out. Maybe it's just to be healthier or to look better. But for who? ⁠
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Self-love brings the intention back to the self... and let's be honest that feels a whole lot better than doing it for someone else who may or may not honor and appreciate your unique self and your journey.⁠
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07/20/2020

To love someone is to learn the song of their heart and sing it to them when they have forgotten. Is there a time when you have forgotten the song of your heart and someone sang it back to you?⁠
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Recall a time when you were really down on yourself. Did you have the patience, the honesty and the presence? How much were you seeing the goodness in your family or friends?⁠
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You see, when we're trapped in self-judgement, we monitor ourselves to see how we're falling short. We become preoccupied with hiding our inadequacy and stay busy justifying, proving or improving ourselves. In this trance, we inevitably extend this filter to others as well.⁠
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When we give ourselves love and we compassionately honor and appreciate our journey and our unique selves, we start to dissolve blocks to love (Yes, even to our own love). We create a clearing to share with other people.⁠
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Seeing the goodness in yourself isn't about being narcissistic or pompous. It's about affirming and acknowledging your unique self. It is a deliberate exercise in self-compassion. When we do this, we are able to extend this to other people.⁠
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Today, try seeing the goodness in yourself. Then, see the goodness in others. ⁠
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