09/03/2026
When your baby is struggling to feed, being told “they’re probably just tired,” “babies are fussy,” or “maybe they’re picking up on your stress” can feel incredibly dismissive.
Because feeding aversion is real — and it can be easy to miss in the early stages.
It doesn’t always start with screaming at the bottle or breast. It can look like turning away, pulling on and off, taking a few sips and stopping, feeding better when sleepy, needing distraction to finish a feed, or seeming hungry but refusing once feeding begins.
And while parental anxiety can understandably develop when feeding becomes stressful, that doesn’t mean anxiety caused the problem.
Babies communicate through their behaviour. When feeding consistently becomes difficult, uncomfortable or conflicted, it deserves a closer look — including why that baby may have started avoiding feeds in the first place.
You know when something has changed with your baby. You deserve to be heard. 🤍