Matchmaker May

Matchmaker May I help single women just like you go from "frustration with dating" to having an unfair advantage!! (310) 867-0851 Find Love. Find Asians.

I help men find Asian women all across the United States and Asia. The Two Asian Matchmakers Difference

Our model of Asian matchmaking employs intuition and expertise. With an eye towards quality over quantity, we meet face-to-face with our male clients interested in dating Asian women to hear what’s important to them.

♥ We show pictures
♥ We set up the date for you
♥ We get date feedback
♥ We recruit for you
♥ We are local in Los Angeles and Orange County

06/03/2026

It's sexy to invite a guy over and cook him your best chicken fettuccine Alfredo from scratch. It’s impressive! Make a salad together, see how you interact. Great date ideas.

Attraction may spark a connection, but lasting relationships are built on deeper alignment in values, lifestyle, and lon...
06/03/2026

Attraction may spark a connection, but lasting relationships are built on deeper alignment in values, lifestyle, and long-term vision.

After years of matchmaking, it becomes clear that compatibility is not random; it is something intentional and thoughtfully guided.

A more structured approach to dating can create clarity and lead to more meaningful outcomes.

If you are ready to take a more intentional approach, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

06/02/2026

After years of matchmaking, one pattern becomes clear: dating without a clear strategy often leads to inconsistent results.

Successful men tend to rely on chance, apps, or timing, when a more intentional approach creates better alignment and stronger connections.

Meaningful relationships are rarely accidental; they are built with clarity and the right introductions.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

One thing I’ve learned after years of matchmaking is this:𝗔 𝗹𝗼𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺𝘀𝗲...
05/31/2026

One thing I’ve learned after years of matchmaking is this:

𝗔 𝗹𝗼𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺𝘀𝗲𝗹𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Especially engineers, executives, and highly successful professionals.

In this episode of The Asian Dating Podcast, I sat down with elite matchmaker Xiaoli Mei, and we talked about why some of the best relationship candidates are often overlooked online.

𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗼𝗱 𝗼𝘂𝘁:
Many Asian women are not looking for perfection. They are looking for emotional stability, intentionality, and a man who makes them feel safe and cared for.

𝗪𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗲𝗱:
• Why ambitious men without formal degrees can still be highly attractive
• How a thoughtfully written dating profile changes everything
• Why learning about her culture before the date matters
• The difference between a healthy connection and “butterflies”

For men who feel burned out by modern dating or frustrated by dating apps, this conversation may help you approach dating in a completely different way.

𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1twIzqo4M4c&list=PLjlshvWIoJ0lG-Dew0rkEmtcclvk-d69D&index=16

05/30/2026

Dating doesn’t always feel inefficient at first, but over time, it can become clear when the process is no longer aligned with what you want.

That realization is often the moment people begin to explore a more intentional and guided approach.

If you're ready to take a different direction, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

05/29/2026

Mike Radoor shares his most profound life lesson: the shift from constantly seeking approval from others to discovering true inner peace and self-pride. It's about letting go of external validation to embrace your own worth.

Choosing a matchmaker is about more than access; it is about finding a process that is intentional, structured, and alig...
05/29/2026

Choosing a matchmaker is about more than access; it is about finding a process that is intentional, structured, and aligned with your values.

A thoughtful approach can reduce uncertainty and create better opportunities for meaningful connection.

When dating feels inconsistent, the right guidance can make a significant difference in the experience and outcome.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀, 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺.Sometimes it’s a lack of practice, ...
05/28/2026

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀, 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝘆 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺.

Sometimes it’s a lack of practice, feedback, and self-awareness.

In this episode, I sit down with Jennie Agin from Storyfull Matchmaking to talk about one of the most overlooked tools in dating right now:

𝗠𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀.

A mock date helps you understand:
• How you come across to others
• Whether conversations feel natural or forced
• What subtle habits may be hurting attraction without you realizing it

One insight I loved from this conversation:

People connect more deeply when you comment on someone’s enthusiasm, not just their appearance.

For busy professionals who are tired of dating apps and surface-level conversations, this episode is full of practical dating insights that actually apply in real life.

𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3vmIRf7cu8&list=PLjlshvWIoJ0lG-Dew0rkEmtcclvk-d69D&index=15

05/28/2026

A leader described his approach as a farmer nurturing his plants. Providing the nutrients needed for growth and success shows care and commitment. It's a beautiful picture of support and cultivation.

Clarity tends to create better dating outcomes than urgency.Matchmaking works best for individuals who are intentional, ...
05/28/2026

Clarity tends to create better dating outcomes than urgency.

Matchmaking works best for individuals who are intentional, value their time, and are ready for a genuine relationship.

A more thoughtful approach can lead to stronger compatibility and more meaningful connections.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

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Los Angeles, CA

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Tuesday 8am - 8pm
Wednesday 8am - 5pm
Thursday 8am - 5pm
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+13108670851

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