03/17/2026
This photo was taken yesterday, Sunday, March 15, 2026 , in the patio / garden of my childhood home in Montebello, where I now live, sharing today on the 1 year anniversary of my sweet mama’s passing.
Using here the beautiful words of my Amiga - Hermana Ixela:
“I’m in the blue dress, it’s my turn at apapachar / hold / mothering Cristina through her reentering the womb, going through a rebirth, and finally cutting the umbilical cord to her mother who’s now on the other realm, side, space. Holding Cristina, the grieving woman who lost her mom a year ago, and whose home burned in the Altadena fire. “
During these moments , I was taken back to the hospital at my mama’s bedside with my sisters, holding my mom, cradling her as she transitioned to be with her Jesus cristo, her virgencita, my father, mis abuelos, all of the ancestors. She wasn’t afraid . She welcomed the journey , and now I follow in her steps as I rebirthed, was lovingly sung “happy birth day” on this heavenly day, embrace the new person I’ve become after the darkness, sadness, heartbreak , and the loss. Our amiga said it : “joy and grief can coexist “.