Neo - Hiii Muva Birth & Consulting

10/02/2026

UNPOPULAR OPINION: A doula who agrees with everything you say is not necessarily a good doula. 👀

My job is not to tell a mother what she wants to hear.

My goal is to make sure she has enough information to make an informed decision for HERSELF — even when that means holding her hand & saying, “Babes… we need to talk about this one.” 😂

I am VERY pro-autonomy.
I am VERY pro-homebirth.
I am VERY pro-women trusting their bodies.

But autonomy without information isn’t informed choice. I’m not going to scare you into a hospital birth.

I’m also not going to romanticize a homebirth when there are circumstances that deserve serious consideration.

I’m not here to replace your judgment with mine.

I’m here to help you sharpen yours.

A good doula should be able to support your autonomy without abandoning her own moral compass, education, or boundaries.

And THAT is one of the things that separates how I serve mothers.

Now I wanna hear from the mamas:

Would you rather have a birth worker who challenges you when necessary—or one who simply supports whatever you decide without questioning it? 🌚

09/29/2026

📢 PSA TO FACEBOOK:

Umm.. I appreciate you pushing my content out to the masses. Truly. 😂

BUT BABY… we need to have a little meeting about WHO you’re pushing it to.

Because why did I check my analytics and see 75% MEN?! 🫠

Facebook, beloved, I need you to go find me:

🤰🏾 Pregnant mamas
🤱🏾 Breastfeeding mamas
🏡 Homebirth-curious mamas
🧘🏾‍♀️ Women interested in physiological birth
👀 Women who question EVERYTHING
📚 Mamas who actually want to understand what is happening to their bodies
🗣️ Women who aren’t afraid to advocate for themselves
🌿 Holistic-minded families
🤎 Black mothers looking for birth education and support
🔥 The rebellious mamas who hear “that’s just hospital policy” and immediately ask, “Okay, but is it LAW?”
😂 And the women who appreciate a birth educator with a little smart ass mouth on her

THOSE ARE MY PEOPLE.

I love fathers who are actively learning how to support their partners, so y’all can stay. 😂❤️

But Facebook, I did NOT ask you to send me Darryl, 52, sitting in his recliner salivating because a woman is breastfeeding in a reel 🙄😑

Please recalibrate the algorithm accordingly.

Thank you for your cooperation. Now approve my monetization expeditiously por favor 💅

— Management

09/28/2026

Of course I'm on X (Twitter) lol - https://x.com/hiiimuva

09/27/2026

And just like ... at their beck and call 😂

09/19/2026

The OB says, “Spread your legs wide so the baby can come out…”

But what if I told you that widening the knees isn’t always creating more room where the baby actually needs it? 👀

During pushing, bringing the knees slightly inward while allowing the ankles to move farther apart can help create more space at the pelvic OUTLET— the lower part of the pelvis baby must travel through before birth.

Think if it like this:

✨ Knees in
✨ Ankles out
✨ Sacrum is free to move

Your body isn’t a doorway that simply needs to be opened wider. The pelvis is made of moving parts, and positioning definitley matters.

This doesn’t mean every mama must push in one exact position. It just means you deserve to understand your anatomy, move freely and choose positions based on what your body and baby need, not just what is most convenient for everyone else in the room.

❤️❤️❤️

09/17/2026

I'm telling y'all... *in my Michael Jackson voice* 😂😂😂

Just try it! 👀

08/06/2026

08/05/2026

I know I'm not to the only one who can relate 😂 come on ova here mama!!! lol

06/23/2026

Why do babies “shed” after birth? 🤍

That little peeling you may see on a newborn’s hands, feet, ankles, or legs is usually part of their transition from womb life to earthside life.

For months, baby’s skin has been immersed in amniotic fluid. Then, suddenly, they are adjusting to air, blankets, diapers, clothing, temperature changes, and a much drier environment. Their outermost layer of skin begins to loosen and shed as their fresh skin adapts to this new world.

It is especially common in babies born closer to — or past — their estimated due date.

Now, let’s talk about that white, creamy coating some babies are born with: vernix caseosa.

Vernix is not “mess” that needs to be immediately wiped away.

It is baby’s first body butter — a protective coating made for them, by them, before they ever take their first breath.

It helps baby’s skin hold onto moisture while adjusting to dry air, supports the skin barrier, and can help reduce evaporative heat loss as baby regulates their temperature after birth. It also contains natural antimicrobial components that support that first layer of protection.

So, if baby is born with vernix, it is okay to say:

“Please leave it on.”

Rather than allowing it to be washed away right after birth, it can be gently rubbed into baby’s skin and allowed to absorb naturally. There is no rush to give a newborn their first bath unless there is a specific medical reason.

Their body came prepared.
Their skin came covered.
Their transition deserves gentleness.

A little peeling is often simply baby’s body adjusting. But if the skin is deeply cracked, very red, blistered, oozing, or baby seems uncomfortable, check in with their pediatric provider to make sure baby is further cared for.

06/07/2026

One thing I absolutely love about this work?

Putting together gifts for my families.

Yes, I spoil my MUVA Mamas a little bit. But I also love including siblings and partners whenever I can.

A new baby doesn’t just change the life of a mother - it changes the entire household.

Big brothers become protectors.
Big sisters become helpers.
Partners step into new roles.
And mothers are reborn, too.

Sometimes a small gift is simply my way of saying:

💜 I see you.
💜 You matter.
💜 You’re part of this journey too.

Those little faces lighting up over a surprise gift never gets old.

Because at HiiiMUVA, I’m not just supporting a birth - I’m supporting a family.



Everybody remembers the baby. I like to remember everybody else, too.