Peace of the Planet

09/01/2026

https://www.peaceoftheplanet.net/blog/2026/9/1/somebody-had-to-go-first

I was recently talking with a woman who shares my interest in death and dying and telling her about my Death Wishes course. As I passionately described everything I had taught, experienced, and learned, she listened eagerly. When I finally stopped to take a breath, she said, “I am totally interest...

09/01/2026

https://www.peaceoftheplanet.net/blog/2026/9/1/somebody-had-to-go-first

I was recently talking with a woman who shares my interest in death and dying and telling her about my Death Wishes course. As I passionately described everything I had taught, experienced, and learned, she listened eagerly. When I finally stopped to take a breath, she said, “I am totally interes

08/27/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts- throwing in some follow up information for Doula Education...

What else should you know before hiring a death doula?

Here's something many people don't realize...

Every death doula is different.

Some focus on bedside support.
Some specialize in planning.
Some offer vigils, legacy projects, family meetings, spiritual support, or grief care.
Some (like me 😊) are also nurses, which means we can often help bridge the gap between the medical world and everything else that matters.

Another important thing to know is that death doulas are not currently covered by health insurance. While hospice, nursing, and medical care may be covered, doula services are generally paid for privately.

Think of it like hiring a birth doula—you aren't paying for medical care. You're investing in personalized guidance, education, advocacy, presence, and support for you and your loved ones during one of life's biggest transitions.

There isn't one "right" doula.

There's only the one who's right for you.

Because at the end of life...
The greatest gift isn't having all the answers.
It's having someone willing to walk beside you while you ask the questions. ❤️

👇 Before today, had you ever heard of an End-of-Life Doula? If so, what did you think we did? I'd love to hear your answers!

08/20/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts- in the form of more questions about doulas. You're welcome.

How do you choose the right End-of-Life Doula?

Choosing a death doula is a little like choosing a therapist or a hiking buddy...
You're going to share a meaningful journey together, so personality matters.

Ask questions like:
✨ What services do you offer?
✨ What's your background?
✨ What does support actually look like?
✨ How do you work with hospice?
✨ Are you comfortable with my beliefs and values?
✨ What happens if my needs change?

And maybe the most important question...
How do you feel after talking with them?

Did you feel calmer?
Safer?
More understood?

That's hard to put on a résumé—but it matters.

Trust your gut.

👇 What's most important to you when choosing someone to support you or your family during a difficult time?

Oh, and this thought just in...Many doulas offer free introductory conversations so you can see if you're a good fit before making any decisions. Never be afraid to ask!

08/17/2026

Last Floating Sound Healing of the Summer.

5 spots left.

The summer is coming to a close as so many are getting ready to head back to school and fall back into the cool weather routines of Autumn. But, not only is summer still here, but this week is predicted to be a beautiful week weather-wise! Why not take advantage and end your week ... or your summer... doing something good for yourself?

This Friday, August 21 at 7:00 -8:00 pm.
12 Fern Way, Madbury NH.
Cost: $50.00

Floats, pillows, blankets, and bug spray are provided with the sounds of nature and calming instruments.

To register:
peaceoftheplanet.net/sound-healing

08/13/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts - answering questions you didn't know you needed.

Who would benefit from an end of life doula?

Short answer? Almost everyone.

You don't have to be actively dying to benefit from a death doula.

We support people living with a serious illness, those planning ahead (because denial isn't actually a retirement plan 😉), caregivers who are exhausted, and families trying to figure out what comes next.

Think of us as part guide, part educator, part calm presence.

We don't replace hospice.
We don't replace your medical team.

We simply help care for the parts that medicine often doesn't have time for—your questions, your fears, your family, your legacy, and your heart.

Sometimes we organize paperwork.
Sometimes we sit in silence.
Sometimes we make sure everyone remembers to breathe.

That's the work. ❤️

👇 What surprised you most about what a death doula does?

07/30/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts - Are you a little wild or more conservative?

I've been invited to memorials and celebrations of life that have included themes. The first one I recall was one where everyone was asked to dress up in 70's attire (the year he was born). I thought it was crazy and that it felt disrespectful. But in hindsight, this theme was perfectly him: fun, funny, and he was ALWAYS smiling when I saw him.

Others have had colors requested: wear cheery colors, they represent the flowers in her garden, wear a Hawaiian shirt- they were his signature look.

Others still had live music and singing... come up and sing a favorite song- his or yours- no professional background required.

Some of these celebrations were bold & unexpected. But they were true to the person and left me saying, "Wow, how fun!". And what a great way to be remembered.

If you could picture any unique thing that you could ask people to do at your celebration of life (that either represented the you they knew or the you you kept hidden), what would that be... and what do you envision people would say as they left?

07/23/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts: Sometimes a powerful quote captures the essence of what it is all about.

And in the end, I believe that we don't need to do anything to be loved.

We spend our lives trying to seem prettier, smarter.

But I realized two things.

Those who love us see us with their hearts and attribute qualities to us beyond those we really have.

And those who don't want to love us will never be satisfied with all of our efforts.

Yes, I really believe that it is important to leave our imperfections alone. They are precious to understand those who see us with the heart.

-Frida Kahlo

07/16/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts: Wading through grief and loss 🌊💔

As some of you may know, I'm fascinated by grief and loss, and I've been consuming content on the topic. Everyone grieves differently, and our culture gives us only a few days to process. 🤕

I lost a friend last year and regret not reaching out to his widow sooner. But grief doesn't just go away with time, we learn to carry it with us. And we can accept help at any point... including almost a year later. It's never too late to reach out and offer support. 💕

If you're thinking of reaching out to someone, please don't hesitate. It's not about having answers, but about showing up and being present. ❤️

07/09/2026

Thursday's Dead Serious Thoughts: The Power of Rituals

Think rituals are just for witches? Think again!

We participate in rituals all the time, from birthday candles to graduations. They bring structure and meaning.

When someone is dying, emotions can be overwhelming or paralyzing. But what if you could contain that energy?

Grief and love share the same energy - opposite sides of a single ribbon.

Rituals create "riverbanks" to channel these feelings safely. No dams, no floods. Just flow.

Try passing a "talking rock" among loved ones:
What do you love about this person?
How have they impacted your life?
Favorite memories?

It provides safety, presence & support.
Slows things down, allowing true connection.

Sadness remains, but contained emotions help everyone heal.

Create your own personal ritual with me!
Reach out for guidance on navigating before, during, or after loss.