09/03/2026
These questions are offensive to our kids and their first families (and us because these kids are a part of our family)! They are very personal details surrounding one of the most traumatic events of their lives.
If you want to be nice, ask these things instead:
✅“How can I help you?”
✅“When can I bring you a meal?”
✅ “What would be most helpful for your kids right now?”
✅“What do your kids like to do/eat/play?”