06/01/2026
I have lost count of how many times I have heard these words in my therapy office. 🥹
‘I don’t want to make a big deal out of it.’ ‘I’m probably overreacting.’ ‘I shouldn’t still be upset about this.’ ‘Other people have it worse.’
Every single one of them was said by a woman who was in genuine pain. Every single one of them said as an apology for feeling it.
And every single time I want to stop and ask:
Who taught you that your feelings needed a disclaimer? Who taught you that your pain had to be justified before it was allowed to exist? Who taught you that other people’s suffering had to be worse than yours before you could admit you were hurting?
And most importantly —
What would change if you finally let it be a big deal?
I think you already know the answer. And I think that answer scares you a little. Which is exactly why it matters. 🤍
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