08/22/2026
If the days feel foggy, if you’re crying and you can’t name why, if you feel like everyone else got a manual you didn’t… none of that means you’re doing this wrong.
About 1 in 5 women experience a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder. It shows up in loving, capable, devoted parents. It is not a reflection of how much you love your baby. You’re a good mom.
Please tell someone. Your partner, your mom, your best friend, the one person you know will pick up the phone.
Tell your OB or midwife at your next visit, or call before your next visit.
Tell your pediatrician.
And you can absolutely tell us. Your lactation consultant is often one of the few people who sees you weekly in those early months, and we would much rather hear it than have you sit with it alone. We’re here to support you. And if you want, can also connect you with therapists and providers who specialize in postpartum.
Postpartum Support International has a helpline at 1-800-944-4773, and you can text that same number.
The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline is free, confidential, and answers 24/7 at 1-833-943-5746.
If you’re in crisis, call or text 988.
You deserve support. Not just for the baby’s sake. For yours.