01/12/2023
There was a time when I believed to give selflessly was healthy. I gave so much that I didn’t know how to receive. Receiving compliments, gifts, feedback & love…it all felt unfamiliar, uncomfortable even.
As I started my self love journey, I intentionally practiced being receptive. In the beginning, I was too damn receptive. I allowed drama, I allowed disrespect, I allowed draining connections. I wasn’t clear on what I wanted or what I was willing to receive.
I found myself in unhealthy cycles of self neglect, overextending myself & people pleasing which resulted in me feeling resentment, guilt & exhaustion.
The more I observed myself & the patterns, I was able to integrate my lessons & experiences around being receptive. I eventually created balance in what was acceptable to receive & what was not. My boundaries got clearer & what I received from others became more aligned with my values & purpose.
Hope this inspires someone to look at how & what they are receiving from people, places & things.
It all starts with our awareness & sense of self worth! 💪🏽🖤
