09/07/2026
If we were new friends meeting in a coffee shop, here’s what I’d want you to know.
Because if you’re a burnt out, midlife mom like me, you’ve been led to believe otherwise.
Being a mama is hard. Being a stressed, tired, sick, ragey mama is even harder.
I know it seems like this is just “how life is now”. Like this is just the “new you.”
I’m here to tell you it’s not.
In no story does the Lord want us just going through the motions, living in low level (or high level) stress. It’s not good for us. It’s not good for the people we love.
As mothers, I think we all adopt this the moment we find out we’re pregnant. That hypervigilance, our nervous system scanning for threat to keep us and our babies safe.
But that same hypervigilance is what’s contributing to the chronic symptoms and illness so many of us are dealing with after 40.
Learning to bring our bodies back to a place of knowing we are safe quiets all that noise.
That’s what I want for you.
I want you to relax without an agenda. I want you to fall asleep because your body knows it’s time, not because you finally collapsed. I want you to know it’s okay to breathe, to need a few minutes just for you, with nothing to show for it.
You don’t have to earn rest. You just have to let your body believe it’s safe enough to take it.
What’s one thing your nervous system has been asking for that you keep putting off? 👇
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