05/29/2026
💥🔥TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS 🔥💥
Toxic relationships can be confusing at times, making it difficult to know ‘who is who in the zoo’. This happens because a toxic person will spin it back on you, blame you, and never take accountability.
If someone hurts you and they are not capable of a genuine apology and you continue hanging out with said person. They will continue to hurt you. They will never be remorseful and, of course, will continue the same behaviour.
Part of healing is figuring out what out-of-bounds behaviour looks like for you. It can range from name-calling, gossip, to physical abuse. Mental abuse and pathological lying to having no regard for your property or the people you care about - the list goes on and on. What one may find tolerable another may find intolerable
If you are in a relationship with a person who repeats out-of-bound behaviours that are violating and hurtful. This means you are being abused.
If this person:
Makes false or non-existent apologies.
Has no respect or care for your feelings.
Blames you for the problems.
Smears you to others, telling them you are the bad one and that they are the one being abused.
Then this is absolutely narcissistic behaviour.
The Truth About This
People either have good character, or they don’t. We are not going to change who people are...it is us who needs to change. It is imperative if we are to have any chance of a healthy, loving and happy life.
That entails:
💥Letting go of our connection to someone like this.
💥Healing ourselves by doing the inner work.
💥Getting very clear about our own self-love, self-worth and boundaries.
From this place we learn how to generate real, raw, authentic, vulnerable, loving and responsible adult relationships in the future.
A person like this simply does not have the resources to grant us this type of relationship...but, we can love ourselves enough to realize; we deserve the love we give to be reciprocated.
You deserve happy and healthy relationships.
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