05/14/2026
More sparks from the spring retreat.
Not as a highlight reel.
As an offering.
One of the practices we worked with was the intentional cultivation of joy.
Because joy is not only something we hope to feel.
Joy is something we practice.
If we want more joy in our lives, we have to become conscious about where joy already lives for us.
Not the big, dramatic, someday version.
The real version.
The tiny, repeatable, accessible things that help the body remember:
I am already that which I seek to become.
I want joy.
And I already have joy.
I en-joy my life right now.
Not when everything is perfect.
Not when I finally get what I want.
Now.
Because we do not attract what we want.
We attract what we are.
If we are constantly living in the absence of joy, waiting for life to change before we let ourselves feel good, we keep reinforcing the absence.
But when we begin to live from the place we are hoping to get to, we become more available to receive more of it.
Hello, law of attraction.
So we took out our journals and made a list:
20 tiny things that make me feel good.
Your first cup of coffee.
The sun on your face.
A walk without your phone.
Putting on lipstick.
Lighting a candle.
Fresh sheets.
Music that makes you move.
A quiet moment before anyone needs you.
Then we looked at the week ahead and placed one tiny joyful thing into each day.
Because if joy matters, we have to stop treating it like an accident.
We have to make space for it.
These photos are of all the small ways we turned ordinary into magic, into joy- and you can do that too- and it doesn’t have to cost money or more mental load
Just take something you are already doing and bring joy to it.
Bring fun to it.
Bring beauty to it.
Bring consciousness to it.
Make it intentional.
Make it yours.
Let it feed you.
That is how we stop waiting for joy and start practicing it.
That is how we become available for more of it.
That is how a life starts to feel different.