09/03/2026
I think it’s worth examining what we are actually saying when we tell someone that “all foods fit” or “all foods are good foods” and messaging that everyone in eating disorder recovery or who is recovered should be able to eat everything or that the reason they are suffering with their chronic illness is because of some nutrition-related aspect of the eating disorder.
There is an assumption underneath this that the recovered body is a body without limitations. A body that can digest anything. A body that can tolerate anything. A body that can eat whatever is available without consequences. A body that doesn’t need accommodations.
But that body does not exist for everyone.
People have food allergies. People live with inflammatory bowel disease, gastroparesis, diabetes, and other gastrointestinal or metabolic conditions. People have endometrial-like tissue that has grown on their digestive organs. People have PMOS. People have various medical history differences and genetic differences that affect digestion, appetite, energy, pain, and food tolerance.
These people are not less invested in recovery because their bodies have different needs.
When we define recovery around the ability to eat every food, we are being (I’ll say it) disgustingly ableist. We take a particular kind of body (one that can tolerate everything without significant physical consequences) and position it as the goal everyone should work toward.
So they are left feeling like they did recovery “wrong.” That everyone else must have been able to crack the code of doing recovery the “right way.”
They may push themselves to eat foods that cause significant symptoms because they are afraid that honoring their body’s limitations means they are giving in to their eating disorder.
That is not what recovery is supposed to be.
If you find yourself in this complicated space, I see you. I will not pathologize your need for accommodations. I’m honored to work with you to figure out what recovery as nutrition rehabilitation looks like for your body, with accommodations❣️