05/20/2026
Excerpts & included inspirations from my most recent newsletter. Sign up on my website to get on my mailing list.
I see healing as the process of self reclamation, becoming intimate with and reintegrating the parts of ourselves that have been hurt, discarded, injured, ill or just deemed undesirable. These are the places we have separated from ourselves. To heal is the journey of becoming whole, this can be a journey we do again and again, in tiny morsels and in big leaps, in a day and over lifetimes. If separation (in all it’s forms) is the dis-ease, than connection is the remedy. We all have parts of ourselves we aren’t claiming, parts we shun or fear, feelings we dare not feel, and parts of ourselves that have weathered the brutality of being in a body in this world. Healing asks us to become whole, to claim the entirety of self. The definition of whole in the OED is
1. all of; entire
2. in an unbroken or undamaged state; in one piece
3. a thing that is complete in itself
4. all of something
But maybe some of us are broken and damaged, in fact, maybe all of us are, can we still be whole? In my own experience yes. Healing and becoming whole begins with the willingness to get reacquainted with these discarded parts, to make contact with the wound. Willingness and tenderness and perhaps some courage are all that’s required. I’ve found that some wounds heal quickly and completely, while others need revisiting. We have many examples of fractured beings creating fracture around them, the journey to become “a thing that is complete in itself”, thus the journey of healing, is a worthy thing to dedicate oneself to, one to get curious and maybe even excited about, it might even be the thing this being human is about.