Center For Erotic Intelligence

05/10/2026

Geriatric pregnancy. Mucus plug. Incompetent cervix. Who approved this?! We rewrote the glossary. Happy Mother’s Day! 💐🌷🌸🌼💐💫💖🤘 Link in bio.

05/05/2026

AI isn’t the future of human connection. But it sure can analyze it.

Two prompts to decode attachment patterns, power dynamics, who’s chasing whom. DECODED. Get the read your friends are too exhausted to give you.

HOT TIP: CHANGE YOUR NAME(S) in the .txt file before you upload.

And a gentle reminder, even if you’re not uploading your texts for to analyze, someone else might. So think twice before you share in digital comms. Even encrypted communications can be uploaded as a file.

04/25/2026

"The forest figured out cooperation 450 million years ago without a single war or a single passive-aggressive email."

On trees, bees, albatrosses, elephants, and the wisdom our planet has been offering us for 450 million years.

10/31/2025

Do you know what this is?

06/01/2025

The best of this week. Thanks ! 🙏🙌💖🔥🙌

01/09/2025

We must demand better of ourselves and each other. Healthy relationships make for a healthy family, community, society, and planet. We must demand action on now!
Our hearts go out to all suffering in California from the fires, those without power in the heartland from the storms, and those weathering brutal cold in the northeast.

12/05/2024

09/19/2024

12/04/2023

Increasingly popular mental health apps generate a massive amount of sensitive data and often have alarmingly lax privacy protections.

10/31/2023

Content Warning: TRAUMA
Interview with the author of The Body Keeps Score.

"People usually think about the military when they talk about trauma. But at least one out of eight kids in America witness physical violence within their parents. A larger number of kids gets beaten very hard by their own caregivers. A very large number of people in general, but women in particular, have sexual experiences that were clearly unwanted and that left them confused and enraged.

So, unlike what we first thought, trauma is actually extremely common. There's a lot debates of what the trauma is to this day. But basically, trauma is something that happens to you that makes you so upset that it overwhelms you. And there is nothing you can do to stave off the inevitable."

" ... and the other thing that is terribly important is the impact of poverty, or the impact of racism, or the impact of unemployment. There is other societies that are much more trauma savvy than we are. Where there is not an enormous amount of income inequality, healthcare is universal, childcare is universal. A culture like that really looks at what are the antecedents for certain forms of pathology. So, the big issue is a political issue.

How do we rearrange our society to really know about trauma so that people who grow up under extreme adverse conditions can become full-fledged members of society?"

What is trauma? The author of “The Body Keeps the Score” explains, with Bessel van der KolkSubscribe to Big Think on YouTube ►► https://www.youtube.com/chann...