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06/03/2026

Collectors MD Features #19: Compulsive Collecting & Spending | Their Own Drum

I had the pleasure this week of joining Sam Sherman, therapist and host of Their Own Drum, for a conversation about compulsive collecting, sports card breaking, dopamine-driven environments, and the growing overlap between collecting and gambling-adjacent behaviors.

We discussed my recovery journey, the story behind Collectors MD, and why awareness, support, and accountability matter more than ever in today's hobby ecosystem.

A huge thank you to Sam for creating space for this discussion and for the incredible work he does in the problem gambling recovery field.

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06/03/2026

In this episode of The Collector’s Compass, Alyx sits down with Pang Ming Wee—better known throughout the hobby as The Card Boss—the creator and host of the Courtside Investor Podcast, one of the fastest-growing long-form conversation platforms in the sports card space.

Based in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Pang has built a truly global audience by sitting down with collectors, dealers, entrepreneurs, content creators, hobby historians, investors, and industry personalities from around the world. Through thoughtful conversations with guests including Chris Hoj, Adam Gray, Jeremy Lee, NEO Cards & Comics, Sports Card Dad, Dan The Card Man, Tyler Nethercott, and many others, Courtside Investor has become one of the hobby's most respected interview-driven platforms.

Before fully immersing himself in sports cards, Pang spent more than twenty years in accounting and finance while simultaneously competing professionally in Magic: The Gathering, representing Malaysia internationally and capturing a National Championship.

What separates Courtside Investor from many hobby platforms is the focus on people rather than transactions. While much of today's hobby content revolves around prices, hype, breaking, and market movement, Pang has built a platform centered around stories, philosophies, collecting journeys, and the lessons that shape collectors over time.

In this conversation, Alyx and Pang discuss his collecting origins, his competitive Magic: The Gathering career, the transition from accounting and finance into full-time hobby entrepreneurship, and what originally inspired him to launch Courtside Investor.

They also explore the realities of building a global hobby audience from Malaysia, the evolution of content creation within the hobby, what makes a great podcast guest, and the lessons Pang has learned from conducting nearly fifty long-form interviews with some of the hobby's most respected voices.

The conversation dives into insights gathered from guests such as Chris Hoj, Adam Gray, Jeremy Lee, NEO, Sports Card Dad, Dan The Card Man, and others, highlighting common themes surrounding collecting philosophy, hobby longevity, personal fulfillment, and what separates healthy collecting from endless chasing.

Pang also shares his perspective on the current state of the hobby, including social media's influence on collecting culture, the growing focus on money and investing, hobby hype cycles, content creator responsibility, and how collectors can maintain perspective in an increasingly fast-moving environment.

Alyx and Pang additionally discuss collecting philosophy, grail cards, meaningful cards, the future of the hobby, the opportunities that many collectors may be overlooking, and the long-term vision for Courtside Investor moving forward.

At its core, this episode is about collecting, storytelling, community, content creation, and the lessons that emerge when you spend years listening to some of the hobby's smartest and most passionate voices.

Topics covered include:
–Pang's collecting origins
–Competitive Magic: The Gathering and representing Malaysia
–His accounting and finance background
–Returning to sports cards during the pandemic
–Building Courtside Investor
–Growing a global hobby audience from Malaysia
–The evolution of hobby content creation
–What makes a great podcast guest
–Lessons learned from nearly 50 hobby interviews
–Insights from Chris Hoj, Adam Gray, Jeremy Lee, NEO, Sports Card Dad, and others
–Collecting philosophies from hobby leaders
–Social media's impact on collecting culture
–The financialization of the hobby
–Hobby hype cycles and perspective
–Content creator responsibility
–Personal collecting philosophy
–Grail cards and meaningful cards
–The future of sports card collecting
–The future of Courtside Investor

If you've ever wondered what some of the hobby's most respected collectors, creators, and entrepreneurs have in common, or wanted to hear the perspective of someone who has spent years sitting down with many of the hobby's brightest minds, this is a conversation worth listening to.

Because sometimes the most valuable thing you can collect isn't a card—it's a lesson.

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06/03/2026

06/01/2026

Daily Reflection: Saving Someone From Drowning

Alyx Effron | June 1, 2026

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Earlier this year, an individual signed up for our Weekly Peer Support Meetings. Like everyone else, they received a welcome email, were added to our weekly meeting invitations, and began receiving weekly reminders about upcoming support groups.

Months went by. No responses. No meetings. No engagement. Then one evening my phone buzzed with a text message: “STOP”.

Most organizations probably would’ve removed the number and moved on. Instead, I responded. A few moments later, another message came through. “Oh sorry, I thought they were automatic messages that didn’t have a legit person behind them!” That conversation ended up lasting for days.

What began as a request to stop receiving text messages turned into a candid conversation about gambling addiction, recovery, motherhood, isolation, shame, fear, support groups, emotional triggers, and hope.

At one point she shared that she was a military wife living far from family. Most of her close friends moved away. Gambling had become her dopamine hit. Her escape. The thing she looked forward to when life felt difficult.

She also admitted something I hear often. She wasn’t sure she wanted to join a support group. Talking about gambling sounded stressful. Listening to other people struggle sounded overwhelming. Part of her wondered if it would be easier to simply not think about it at all.

Truthfully, those concerns made perfect sense. Recovery can feel intimidating when you’ve spent so much time carrying everything alone. The entire interaction reminded me of something. People don’t always reject help because they don’t want it. Sometimes they reject help because they’re scared of it. Scared of being vulnerable. Scared of being seen. Scared of what might happen if they admit how much they’re struggling. Scared of discovering they may not be able to fix it entirely on their own.

Many people don’t need a solution first. They need safety first. When someone feels like they’re drowning, they aren’t looking for a lecture about how to swim. They need to know there’s a real person standing at the shoreline, reaching out a hand, listening, understanding, and not walking away when the waves get rough.

Recovery often feels like watching someone tread water from a distance. They call out that they’re struggling. You extend a hand. They hesitate. They pull away. They question whether they even deserve help.

From the outside, it can look like they don’t want support. The reality is often the exact opposite. Many people want support desperately. They just don’t know if it’s safe to trust it yet.

When someone raises their hand and asks for help, something changes. They’ve trusted you enough to let you see that they’re struggling. They may disappear for a while. They may second-guess themselves. Fear, shame, and uncertainty can cause people to retreat just when they need connection most.

If someone is drowning and asks you to save them, you don’t stop reaching because they panic and let go for a moment. You stay nearby. You keep the lifeline available. You remind them they’re not alone in the water.

That’s what happened when I received the “STOP” message. Months earlier, someone had signed up looking for support. Instead of assuming they wanted to be left alone, I chose to respond. What followed wasn’t a sales pitch or a debate about recovery. It was a conversation between two human beings.

That’s why community matters. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can offer another person isn’t advice, solutions, or answers. It’s your presence. A reminder that someone heard them. A reminder that someone cares. A reminder that they’re not carrying this alone.

The person who texted “STOP” ended up asking for a phone call. Not because I had all the answers. Simply because they discovered there was a real human being behind the message. Sometimes that’s all it takes.


People rarely heal the moment they ask for help. Often, healing begins the moment they realize someone is still there after they ask.

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06/01/2026

05/31/2026

Daily Reflection: The Justification Trap

Sean Harding | May 30, 2026

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How many times did I tell myself I was done buying sports cards? More importantly, why did I keep going back even after promising myself I would stop?

The deeper I fell into compulsive collecting, the easier it became to justify every purchase. It didn’t matter if I had money to spend or not. It didn’t matter if I had already told myself “this is the last one”. My brain could always come up with another reason why buying made sense.

At first, I convinced myself I was investing. I joined a group that claimed to teach members how to identify undervalued raw cards, grade them, and flip them for massive profits. I spent thousands of dollars learning the so-called “secret sauce”. Once I joined, I started buying singles constantly. Some worked out. Many didn’t. Looking back, the biggest thing I was investing in wasn’t sports cards. It was hope.

Then I started believing I was one of the lucky ones. A few early purchases turned into cards worth thousands of dollars. Instead of appreciating those wins for what they were, I allowed them to distort my thinking. I started believing I could repeat those outcomes whenever I wanted. Whether it was luck, timing, or market conditions no longer mattered. Every success became another justification to spend more money.

The most dangerous justifications rarely feel dangerous at the time. They feel logical. They feel responsible. They feel like opportunities that would be foolish to pass up. Looking back, many of us realize we weren’t chasing cards. We were chasing the feeling those cards promised us.

Then came repacks. I hit a massive card worth roughly $17,000 early on and convinced myself I had cracked the code. Suddenly I believed I could replicate that success whenever I wanted. Being surrounded by buyers who immediately offered cash for big hits only reinforced the illusion. It made everything feel safe. It made every purchase feel strategic.

The reality was very different. For every major hit, there were countless losses. For every card that covered a bad decision, there were dozens more that quietly compounded the problem.

Eventually, I moved into player speculation. I remember buying a gold Tyler Shough Downtown before he was named the starter and quickly doubling my money. Once again, a positive outcome convinced me I had discovered an edge. Those moments became proof that I knew what I was doing.

The problem was that I only focused on the wins. I wasn’t paying attention to the PSA 8s that lost money. I wasn’t paying attention to the repacks that produced nothing. I wasn’t paying attention to the boxes full of disappointment. I wasn’t paying attention to the players whose markets collapsed as quickly as they rose.

No matter which justification I used, I always ended up in the same place. Broke. Stressed. Isolated. Miserable.

The hardest part about compulsive collecting is that it often disguises itself as logic. You aren’t buying because you’re chasing. You’re buying because you’re investing. You’re buying because you have information others don’t. You’re buying because this player is undervalued. You’re buying because the market is about to move.

At least that’s what you tell yourself. Over time, collecting can slowly transform into something else entirely. The collection becomes secondary. The chase becomes the priority.

That’s one of the reasons the current hobby environment concerns me. It’s increasingly common to hear sports cards discussed as guaranteed investments or easy money. Phrases like “cash is dead” or “sports cards outperform everything” can sound harmless, but for someone already struggling with compulsive behaviors, those messages can become fuel.

The justifications start small. Then they grow. Before long, you aren’t making decisions based on what you genuinely want. You’re making decisions based on the next story you’ve created to justify another purchase.

Before you buy your next card, ask yourself a simple question: Why am I really buying this? The answer might tell you more than the card ever could.


The justifications change, but the chase often stays the same until we’re willing to be honest about what we’re really searching for.

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05/31/2026

The Collector’s Compass #45: From Sneakers To Cards With Kickstradomis

In this episode of The Collector’s Compass, Alyx Effron sits down with Sal Amezcua (), one of the most well-known sneaker customizers in the world whose work has been worn by NBA players on the court, and the founder of Kicksverse, a platform merging sneaker culture, art, and collectibles.

Kicks is an artist who’s built a brand at the highest level of culture. From designing custom sneakers for athletes and celebrities to expanding into trading cards and art, he’s carved out a lane that blends creativity, community, and commerce.

Alyx and Kicks explore the crossover between sneaker culture and the modern hobby—two worlds driven by passion, scarcity, and hype, but also increasingly shaped by scale and pressure. They also discuss intentional collecting, staying connected to passion as the hobby becomes more transactional, and how Kicks' journey as an artist has shaped his approach to collecting.

With over a million followers and global influence, Kicks shares his perspective on the hobby, the responsibility of influence, and navigating a space where entertainment, commerce, and culture intersect. They also discuss legacy, giving back, supporting emerging artists and brands, and continuing to push creative boundaries through Kicksverse. They also discuss legacy, giving back, supporting emerging artists and brands, and continuing to push creative boundaries through Kicksverse.

This isn’t just a conversation about sneakers or cards—it’s about building something real in a space that’s constantly evolving. At its core, this episode is about creativity, culture, and the difference between collecting, creating, and chasing.

Topics covered include:
–Kicks' journey to becoming one of the most recognized sneaker customizers in the world
–Creating customs for NBA players, celebrities, and influencers
–The evolution of sneaker culture and its parallels to the hobby
–Scarcity, hype, and the role of community across both spaces
–The difference between creating and chasing
–What intentional collecting looks like from a creator’s perspective
–Building Kicksverse and expanding into trading cards and art
–The current state of the hobby through an influencer lens
–Responsibility, reach, and the impact of having a large audience
–Auction culture, exclusivity, and digital collectibles
–Paying it forward and supporting emerging artists and brands
–Advice for creators and collectors navigating today’s environment

If you’ve ever thought about the intersection of art, sneakers, and collecting—or wondered where passion fits into a space driven by hype—this is conversation will resonate. Building and chasing are simply not the same.

Subscribe, share, and join the conversation around awareness, creativity, and building a more intentional relationship with collecting.

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05/31/2026

🚨"I thought maybe it was $200,000... $300,000."

The reality? Over $1.5 million spent on Whatnot in just a few months.

In this raw moment, Sean reflects on the day he finally confronted the reality of his spending after months of compulsive breaking and chasing losses. When he finally looked at his transaction history, the total was far beyond anything he had imagined, forcing him to come to terms with the true extent of the damage.

Addiction has a way of distorting reality. Numbers become abstract. Losses blur together. Until one day, you're faced with the truth.

Recovery often begins with a single, uncomfortable step: facing reality.

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05/30/2026

05/30/2026

Collector Spotlight: May 2026 | Wil Portillo

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This month, we’re proud to feature Wil Portillo () – a lifelong collector whose story serves as a reminder that collecting isn’t always about value, scarcity, or profit. Sometimes it’s simply about preserving the things that make us feel connected to who we are.

Like many collectors, Wil’s journey started long before he understood what a penny sleeve was. At just five years old, he was already fascinated by trading cards. Whether it was Star Wars, Yu-Gi-Oh!, baseball cards from the local Chevron station, or whatever packs caught his eye at Target, he loved having physical pieces of the things he enjoyed. Back then, condition didn’t matter. Most of those childhood cards ended up bent, damaged, and well-loved because they were meant to be handled, enjoyed, and appreciated.

Years later, during the pandemic, Wil found himself reconnecting with those same feelings of nostalgia. As he reflected on his childhood, collecting naturally found its way back into his life. This time, his focus shifted toward the things that had shaped him over the years. Spider-Man. Batman. Disney. Pixar. DreamWorks. SpongeBob. Movie promo cards from films he loved growing up.

And because soccer had become his passion since his teenage years, he also began building a collection centered around Lionel Messi and other FC Barcelona legends.

What stands out most about Wil’s perspective is that he never viewed collecting as a shortcut to getting rich. For him, cards have always represented something deeper. They’re memories. They’re moments. They’re pieces of history connected to the sports, movies, characters, and experiences that helped shape our lives.

In a hobby that is often consumed by pricing apps, market trends, grading reports, and constant buying and selling, Wil offers a refreshing reminder that collections don’t have to be built around transactions. They can be built around meaning.

Collecting allows us to hold onto pieces of our past while connecting with others who share the same passions. Whether it’s a favorite athlete, a beloved film, a childhood cartoon, or a memorable moment in sports history, those connections often matter far more than whatever number appears on a sales chart.

Wil describes cards as physical pieces of history and significance rather than commodities. That mindset reflects something we talk about often within Collectors MD – the difference between ownership and connection.

The healthiest collections are often the ones built around things we genuinely love. Not because they’re trending. Not because someone told us they’ll go up in value. Not because we’re chasing a quick hit of excitement. But because they mean something to us.

Wil’s collecting journey spans decades, from childhood packs purchased at corner stores to carefully curated collections centered around soccer, film, and pop culture. Through it all, one thing has remained constant: a genuine appreciation for the stories behind the items he collects.

Wil’s story serves as an important reminder that collecting doesn’t always have to be about what’s next. Sometimes it’s about remembering where we’ve been. And sometimes the most valuable card in a collection isn’t the rarest one. It’s the one that brings back a memory.


Collect With Intention. Not Compulsion.

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Presented By All Touch Case Wil Portillo, This month, we’re proud to feature Wil Portillo () – a lifelong collector whose story serves as a reminder that collecting isn’t always about value, scarcity, or profit. Sometimes it’s simply about preserving the things that make u...