10/12/2026
Birth is an altered state.
In that deep place, the usual ways of speaking can sometimes slip away - words can get hard, needs can feel stuck inside you, and the room can feel like it’s moving at a different speed than your mind.
What always stands out to me is how skilled midwives are able to stay tuned in to all of it.
Not just the clinical pieces, but the energy, the body language, the quiet signals that someone might not be able to name out loud in the moment.
They notice when something shifts and gently offer the next right thing—sometimes before you’ve found the words for it yourself.
There’s something quietly powerful about that kind of presence. Being held by someone who can read the room so well that they meet you exactly where you are.
Full episode with Asha is out now, you can find it wherever you normally listen to podcasts or right on my website MyMaineBirth.com