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09/15/2026

09/08/2026

Good Grief: Or Shame Episode Summary This Labor Day episode takes the "If I Were the Devil" framework and applies it to grief. Danielle unpacks how the enemy waits for a grieving heart to be distracted and vulnerable, then uses the shoulda-coulda-woulda thinking of grief to plant shame, self-blame,....

09/01/2026

Happy Monday, friends! I thought I had wrapped up my series on shame — and then this week happened. Between a practicum on family-of-origin patterns, several sessions where school-based shame emerged, cheering on a friend's daughter at a high school Volleyball game (yes, actually the very same gym...

08/25/2026

Show Notes: In this episode, I'm wrapping up our series on shame by connecting the dots between shame and attachment theory - because if I were the devil, this is exactly where I'd attack: using our earliest attachment wounds to keep us disconnected from who we are in Christ. I share a personal mome...

08/18/2026

Last Sunday, I froze. I was supposed to open our church service, and instead I sat there - racing thoughts, confusion, embarrassment, shame, the urge to run and hide. In this episode, I'm walking you through exactly what happened, how I responded in the moments and days after, and what it revealed a...

08/11/2026

I was Frozen: A Raw Story of Spiritual Warfare, Attachment Wounds & Speaking Up In this episode I'm getting real and a little unfiltered! Over the past 24 to 36 hours I walked through what I can only describe as an emotional storm - one that peeled back layers I thought I had already healed. I'm...

08/06/2026

I am sooo sooo close to rolling out the coaching programs for ya’ll!

I’ve recorded over 12-hours of video- based lessons (and more to come!) with accompanying worksheets to help my clients going through intimate betrayal recovery to have access to exactly what they need, when they need it!

No more missing integral tools or information or spending sessions going over information- sessions are then streamlined to work through only the implementation and skills for what you need or don’t fully understand!

Different membership tiers for you, whether doing the program as an individual or as a couple!

You can access our client portal 24x7 to access your private membership groups, courses, schedule coaching sessions, all in one place- for varying stages of your recovery journey!

We will feature live groups for “Ask the Kid” where you can submit questions to my adult daughter about her experiences growing up with parents navigating addiction recovery, betrayal etc… real, raw, inscripted!

And

“Ask the Unfaithful” - ask Derek (my husband and Coach for the men in our program!) any questions you have for him and his struggles and eventual full surrender to recovery!

We are not perfect - we didn’t do everything the way we could have - we learned along the way through the tools we had at the time - it was ugly at times and we are going to be working on recovery til we reach heaven…

But there is power of community, vulnerability, and in our testimonies!

More to come… stay tuned!!!!

08/03/2026

If I Were the Devil: The War on LoveEPISODE SHOW NOTESThe Four Entry Points of ShameWhy the Enemy Targets Your Identity, Not Just Your BehaviorEpisode SummaryHey friend, it's Dani. In this episode, I'm picking up right where we left off two weeks ago in our series on shame. If you missed that episod...

07/22/2026

War on Love Podcast — Show Notes Shame: The Enemy's Favorite Weapon (Series Premiere) Recorded: Tuesday, July 21 I know, I know. It's not Monday. And honestly, that's kind of the point of this whole episode. I want to take you through my day yesterday, because this is real-life spiritual warfare, ...

07/20/2026

New Blog!!! Finally … it’s been awhile but this one is worth the wait with an awesome Free downloadable tool to use also!!!

HELLO!!!