07/24/2026
1. Don't wake them every 2 to 3 hours at night once they've regained their birth weight around 2 weeks of life.
Once your pediatrician gives the okay and the baby is gaining well, you can go 4 hour streches and sometimes even 5 hours are ok. Longer stretches of sleep support brain development, digestion, and a calmer nervous system, and let you rest, too.
2. Don't keep them awake longer to "make them tired."
Overtired babies don't sleep better, they sleep worse. Newborn wake windows are short, often just 45 to 60 minutes. Pushing past that leads to more fussiness, harder settling, and more night waking, which can also make feeds harder since an overtired baby often struggles to latch or feed calmly.
3. Don't let daytime naps run too long.
It's tempting to let a long nap go for hours, especially if you finally get a quiet moment. But very long daytime naps lead to less feeding during the day, which makes nights harder. Most newborns do best when naps are capped at around 2 hours during the day, enough rest without stealing from nighttime sleep or feeding rhythms.
4. Don't assume every cry means hunger.
Newborns cry for many reasons: gas, discomfort, overstimulation, needing a change, or simply wanting closeness. Feeding is important, but not every cry calls for food. Sometimes all they need is soothing, rocking, or a reset. Learning to tell the difference can also help protect your milk supply and prevent overfeeding.
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