18/08/2026
Enjoyment of life can still be balanced with good health practices. One does not have to cancel out the other. Discipline does not mean the absence of spontaneity and fun. And yes, having systems and habits to keep you on track and keep you feeling your best are really important. But like everything some people just take this to such an extreme that the goal of living a fulfilled enjoyable life is obscured by the goal of extreme adherence to rules and regulations. Quite honestly I’m not here for this and after working with patients for 28 years, I will tell you that the individuals that were able to prioritize enjoyment and their life along with keeping a balanced health system were the ones that truly flourished. This is the core of my current midlife coaching strategy.
I believe that we should all be able to curate a life that suits us. We are the ones who get to pick and choose what belongs and what is important to us. This is truly designing a life that you do not want to escape from.