09/02/2026
A lot of people here don’t know this version of me.
Before I ever learned the language of the nervous system, I was learning it from a horse.
I spent years showing horses, and looking back, I realize some of my deepest lessons about the nervous system, trust, God, and communication happened in the saddle.
A horse taught me how to pay attention to what couldn’t be said.
They feel the tension in your body.
The hesitation in your hands.
The change in your breath.
The difference between confidence and force.
And over time, that taught me how to witness the nervous systems of others with incredible detail, not just listening to what someone says, but noticing what their body is communicating underneath the words.
When you're riding, it's just you and the horse.
And in life, underneath all the noise, sometimes it really is just you and God.
A relationship.
A communication.
A willingness to listen instead of constantly trying to control what happens next.
And yes—I’ve been bucked more then a few times. 😂
But I never got mad at the horse.
I wanted to understand.
What happened?
What did I miss?
Was there fear?
Pain?
Confusion?
Was I asking in a way they couldn't understand?
Imagine if we approached life that way.
Instead of immediately becoming angry when life throws us off, what if we became curious?
Horses taught me discipline, patience, humility, responsibility and the kind of dedication required to become good at something that cannot be faked.
God continues to teach me many of the same things.
Maybe that’s why so much of what I teach today comes back to the same place:
Learn your body.
Learn to listen.
Stop trying to force everything.
Build trust.
Stay curious.
And keep the communication between you and God open enough to receive love, peace, direction and understanding.
Maybe the things that shaped us most were teaching us who we would become long before we knew it.
🩵 What part of your past taught you something you’re still carrying today? I’d genuinely love to hear it.