08/26/2026
Are you living in the “as soon as I...” trap?
Right now we are shifting out of summer and into the fall. Our schedules are ramping up and it’s easy to fall into habits that can make it difficult to find peace.
We tell ourselves that once we get our new routine down, or get through a rough week that things will calm down.
This is the Arrival Fallacy - it’s an illusion that true rest is waiting just on the other side of the to-do list. But when we finally cross the finish line, the relief doesn’t last.
Life will hand us demands and thus we begin the cycle again.
If you only allow yourself to rest or find joy when everything is checked off your list, you will never do it.
You don’t have to have everything figured out to deserve a break today.
How can you find a moment of peace in the middle of chaos this week?
If you’re struggling, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us at Evolve Counseling Collective. Reach us by phone at +1 (719) 671-2546 or through email at [email protected].