09/14/2026
This photo is from 2021, the beginning of Revamped Wellness yoni steaming services but after the coming of age ceremony. It captures a sacred moment between my daughter and me as we shared a mother-daughter yoni steam.
For me, this was about more than the steam. It was about creating space for conversation, connection, reproductive wellness, and the journey from girlhood into womanhood. It was an opportunity for our relationship to begin evolving beyond only mother and daughter—and into womanship.
As women and girls, we share experiences connected to our bodies, our cycles, our reproductive health, and the many transitions that shape us. These common experiences can become the foundation for a deeper sisterhood—one that reaches across generations and includes mothers, grandmothers, aunties, caregivers, daughters, and chosen family.
Think back to when you first started your period.
Who prepared you?
Who celebrated you?
Who made you feel safe enough to ask questions?
Was it treated as something sacred—or something to hide?
How might your journey into womanhood have been different if you had received intentional maternal support?
And now, if you are raising or guiding a girl, what do you have the opportunity to do differently?
A coming-of-age ceremony can transform a pivotal moment into a rite of passage—one rooted in education, affirmation, bodily autonomy, culture, care, and belonging. It can tell a young girl: You are not alone. Your body is not shameful. Your questions are welcome. The women around you are here to walk beside you.
I want us to become curious about what it could look like to change the pattern—not only for our daughters, but also for the younger versions of ourselves who may not have received this kind of support.
This journey does not have to be walked alone. We can move through it together—girl to woman, daughter to mother, generation to generation—building a sisterhood rooted in the shared experience of womanship. 🧡
If you know a girl that deserves a coming of age ceremony comment “interested”