08/28/2026
Anybody who has ever had intense dealings with a Malignant Narcissist knows that if they choose you as a scapegoat, they don't let go, with the exception of finding a new scapegoat that triggers them more. A Narcissist will make excuses for inexcusable behavior.
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Some of you are aware that at least a good portion of the things we have been dealing with appear to come from the same source, a Malignant Narcissist and the Flying Monkeys who like to cause damage in other people's lives. Many of them are Narcissists themselves and enjoy targeting people.
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Things have gone as far as attempted murder and killing / poisoning of pets and we see nothing happening to the victimizer(s) from law enforcement, partly because they make it difficult and partly because law enforcement has a tendency to see a chronic victim as someone who is automatically to blame for their own problems.
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For those of you with limited understanding of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I will give you some information. Please be sure to read the comments next to the images for a full understanding of the roles you can play in the life of a Narcissist and how you may be used without knowing to revictimize their victim.
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Living with a Narcissist or having a family member who is a Narcissist can be challenging. Most people think that if they just accept this or accept that, there will be improvements in their mentally bruised and battered existence. While it may be true to some degree, you may also cause an increase in abuse for those who are honest and speak up. NEVER take on the role as a flying monkey or a Narcissistic enabler or you are doing their dirty work for them and creating victims.
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Pay attention to your role. Think hard about how you act if you know a Narcissist, because there are many acceptable ways to act, but causing the breakdown of the minds, feelings of safety, or well-being of others is NEVER one of them. Never devalue, minimize, gaslight, or trivialize a victim or their experience! Sometimes the consequences of you doing this may be too much to handle.
There are many types of Narcissists, the worst of which is usually a Malignant Narcissist which is one with an extreme mix of narcissism, antisocial behavior, aggression, psychopathy, or sa**sm.
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If you are in a relationship with one, never underestimate what they could do to you. Find safety! Protect children involved. NEVER believe the ONE TRUE GOD who created the Universe intended for you to stay and be beaten or killed. Scriptural abuse is one of MANY methods they may use on you.
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The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5) describes NPD as possessing at least five of the following nine criteria.
1. A grandiose sense of self-importance (exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements).
2. Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love.
3. Believing that they are "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions).
4. Requiring excessive admiration.
5. A sense of entitlement (unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with their expectations).
6. Being interpersonally exploitative (taking advantage of others to achieve their own ends).
7. Lacking empathy (unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others).
8. Often being envious of others or believing that others are envious of them.
9. Showing arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.
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One thing is for sure, the VICTIM of a Narcissist and their enablers and flying monkeys has their world turned UPSIDE DOWN!
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Even if you think you know all there is to know about these people, I am certain you encounter regularly, and their victims, I encourage you to read this all the way through. All of these people are victims of the Narcissist in one way or another, even those who victimize others to find favor with the Narcissist.
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A Narcissist may get you to operate by faking emotions that they know will reel you in. They learn how to fake emotions through Emotional Mirroring. This is why they like people with a lot of Empathy. They learn how to act in situations, and they see what other people respond to. They often try to break down your relationships with others and be the center of everyone's world. Sometimes they will even step in and repair the relationships they break to look like the hero. That is called Triangulation.
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The bottom line is that they love to see you MISERABLE. Their end goal is to create CHAOS. THEY ARE NOT fixable. YOU cannot save them from themselves or their past. It was a conscious choice to become what they are, unlike depression or other things that can be chemically induced. Only the Creator can fix this and first they would have to HONESTLY submit. One of their favorite things to do is to fake that submission. YOU WILL KNOW THEM BY THEIR FRUIT!
